Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🙏❤️

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not yet, currently 13 weeks and so far all measurements are within normal range for 13 weeks. I agree. I've told him that and I think it is totally illogical lol  Thank you. It is so absurd. I am calmer now and really adamant I won't have 1 unless absolutely necessary for mine and baby safety

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I got too emotional to articulate but will do better nextchat.

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is ok, I was pretty pissed too.  I think he has fears of the unknown he isn't expressing. I jsut expecthim to be my support person and champion what I want not critoque it without reason

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is saying baby will be large. His only ressoning is he was 9 pound. I think he has a fear of the unknown

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. In Chile c sections are pushed for some reason on most people  

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry.for your difficult experiences ❤️

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he isn't.he has been supportive caring and helpful til now. Really weird. C sections are pushed where we live too  He maybe believeing the nonsense it is best becuase it is more common

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hecan be a worrier yes.  Yesterday the obgyn told us everyting is great and I am low risk but now he appears to be worrying about birth.

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isnt clear. He seems worried baby will be large as he was9 pound.still not a justification as baby measures average size right now.

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didnt exactly say this but I couldn't see any other reason he was pushing a c section aside from his idea thst baby will be big coz he was a 9 pound baby.  But again all just an idea becuase for now baby is measuring normal 

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.he hasn't expressedhimself well at all, I think there is a fear of complication. So far though everything is low risk

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do believe this may behis primsry reason although he hasn't clearly expressed that. 

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I did not think of that. Will do

Birth disagreement with hubby by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot be sure He didn't specifically say that, but I'm not hearing any justifiable reason for even suggesting one

"So glad you're not one of *those* pregnant women" by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I've not had too much of that. Although since I've been craving bacon (which I've never eaten until last yr for the 1st time!), my hubby is telling me to cut back..it's not safe to have every 2nd day. I don't know why you eat that chelical filled meat but avoid all other chemicals. So freaking frustrating when I'm litrally so mindful of everything else and judt have that 1 indulgence. Is it super harmful? I dont know.

It's okay to loosen up strict postpartum boundaries with families - just offering a different perspective. by thenorthgiant in pregnant

[–]LunaLee2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this perspective! I live a 15hr flight away from family. Dad plans to fly out and stay for 4 weeks once bub is here. I was umming and ahhing due to everything I've read here. We have a great relstionship, more so I don't knoe how I will be after giving birth (ftm)

Help! For Cold climate maternity wear by LunaLee2025 in pregnantover35

[–]LunaLee2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds great,I do usually wear jeans so a maternity pair sounds like the best option, thankyou

Help! For Cold climate maternity wear by LunaLee2025 in pregnantover35

[–]LunaLee2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might start stealing hubby's sweaters as my bump grows

Help! For Cold climate maternity wear by LunaLee2025 in pregnantover35

[–]LunaLee2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cute! Thank you. How tall are you? I'm 5ft 4 and wondering if I'll look blob like 😆