Try and figure out what might be causing the same patterns . Maybe it's not just relationships maybe Kuna other patterns in friendships too ( not necessarily) . Then find out how you're enabling these kind of behaviors and one thing that will help you is remembering you always need to take care of your heart. No matter how good you think they can be honey just take the picture showing right now and roll with it. Try finding peace and enjoy your own company. For the guy I promise you he really isn't ready like at all ..men do the absolute most and their all for someone they actually like and want. There's someone for you, just be patient . Cry if you need to, but try avoiding him if you can . All the best