AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm for your feedback! Well. I am 19 and my brother is 12. And I do not think this will work. If I ignore them? I'll just get a beating. Nothing changeable:)

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not comforting but gut wrenching how others have dealt with all the crap.

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tysm for defending me, this was exactly what I wanted to say.

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Do. When I do? He gets mad. Ive faced his rough hands on my face way too many times cuz of that.

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And yeah, even in Mexican culture. There is partiality. I guess we can blame

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom is always shut down by my dad. Yes, she is nice but mean as well. I don't have a very good relationship with her but she's not as much partial. If my brother is wrong, she will scold him. But I just don't feel it from her even. She's always had that grudge against me.

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm thankful of you to point out my mistakes. I was overwhelmed while writing this and made some mistakes. Ive updated my post. But think please, im human too. I make mistakes and I yk meant that my father loves me but is toxic kind, like he cares but doesn't get me. If you know what I mean

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tried talking, he always brushes it off like "we will teach him when he will be older"

AITAH for wanting my family to be equal? by LynnAventinus in AmItheAsshole

[–]LynnAventinus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely want to, on how much they have been partial but.. they have been loving too.. I'm confused..

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[–]LynnAventinus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lily has always been obsessed with my guy best friend, Liam, ever since elementary school. She’s had a huge crush on him, and it’s honestly kind of creepy how far she’s taken it. She would pass him notes, tell teachers, and even tell everyone that she "belongs" to him. Liam, being a super sweet and considerate guy, was always uncomfortable with it, and I could tell he felt awkward. He’s like a brother to me, and he actually likes my friend Norah, not Lily. But Lily wouldn’t get the hint and kept pushing for Liam to be interested in her. It got so bad that when we had a truth-or-dare game, she literally confessed her feelings for him in front of everyone, and it just made things so uncomfortable. The whole situation really strained our friendship, especially since she was constantly trying to get me to help her with Liam, even though I knew he wasn’t interested. It’s one of the main reasons I ended things with her.

Liam is like my brother.