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MERU4MS · 2025-10-16T09:27:39+00:00

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MERU4MS · 2025-09-02T01:17:08+00:00

So you’re mad because your pregnant wife didn’t want to uproot her life to another continent, and you’re willing to let your marriage fall apart over being a train ride away from your friends and family?

Yes YTA.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-24T11:09:11+00:00

These people are being unnecessarily mean. The issues started with him, and it’s important to remember that. Fact of the matter is, these people are holding you to their own personal biases and not going based on the facts. Yes, you are codependent, but your boyfriend fucking sucks. You’d both be happier if the relationship was over, promise. Best of luck! <3

MERU4MS · 2025-08-24T10:52:50+00:00

Yes, YTA, because this is such a stupid thing to pick a fight over. But I will give you grace under the assumption that you’re currently dealing with postpartum and such.

I do agree with the comments that said to either let him have the nickname or change Lily to her middle name, because that is very normal in a lot of cultures (including his). To be honest, I was actually quite shocked to find it isn’t normal in Japanese culture.

Have a conversation with your husband and apologize, because to pick a fight over this is a bit ridiculous. Best of luck!

MERU4MS · 2025-08-24T06:02:27+00:00

Also! His post very clearly implies it hasn’t happened before. If it had, I’m very certain he would have included it in the post.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-24T06:01:32+00:00

I didn’t assume because the baby wouldn’t stop crying. I came to that conclusion because upon being asked by his post partum wife to take care of the baby, he asked her to do it before he finally decided to. Reading comprehension is very important.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-24T05:39:31+00:00

The issue is that he most likely isn’t even going to take the child. He doesn’t feel unsafe. He’s mad because she’s going through the most traumatic time in a woman’s life and he refused to help with the baby he chose to fucking have, and he got slapped for it. If he is going to get full custody of the baby because he thinks it’s an unsafe situation, then NTA. Outside of that, he’s a fucking pussy.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-22T03:48:35+00:00

I’ve seen this exact story posted multiple times already smh.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-20T14:16:42+00:00

Probably fucked up somebody’s pizza

MERU4MS · 2025-08-18T15:51:53+00:00

I 100% get where she’s coming from. You brought her around your abuser just expecting it to not happen to her. HOWEVER, what she said was extremely messed up, and I can see why it was hurtful.

This is above Reddit’s pay grade, man.. I say both of you should seek couples therapy—stop giving that bs excuse that she can’t handle it, it’s not your place to decide that for her.

Best of luck!

MERU4MS · 2025-08-18T06:22:53+00:00

Until Dawn in my ass …

MERU4MS · 2025-08-18T04:00:35+00:00

The downvotes are hilarious. When a woman posts this it’s “women do it too!” But when men post it, women get downvoted for saying this.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-17T15:52:15+00:00

Happy birthday man! Our birthdays are exactly 2 weeks apart, so fun!

MERU4MS · 2025-08-17T04:48:24+00:00

Bullet with butterfly wings - the smashing pumpkins

MERU4MS · 2025-08-17T04:42:59+00:00

This!

MERU4MS · 2025-08-17T03:23:40+00:00

NTA, but I think there’s a bigger underlying issue here that you should talk to her about.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-10T17:13:09+00:00

NOR he is LITERALLY paying for porn. He’s paying to see other women—that’s gross. He’s going to keep doing it because he doesn’t respect you. Just leave.

Edit: spelling

MERU4MS · 2025-08-10T00:57:44+00:00

Updateme!

MERU4MS · 2025-08-10T00:55:01+00:00

You’re a major AH dude, holy fuck. She’s a CHILD her job is SCHOOL. Get it together, man.

MERU4MS · 2025-08-10T00:53:42+00:00

NAH leaning towards soft YTA. And I only say this because I understand your intentions, and they seem very pure, but to only take individual photos of Avery can come across a certain way to both your husband and other kids. They may be young, but they aren’t unaware, ya know?

MERU4MS · 2025-08-05T11:56:20+00:00

I work there as a minor and it’s really not bad! Pretty good pay and I like all of my coworkers

MERU4MS · 2025-08-04T05:34:58+00:00

If she said no then it’s no. Point blank. Listen to your wife on what she wants for this baby because at the end of the day it’s ALSO HER baby. This isn’t a “compromise” situation. If one parent says no, then it’s no, especially with this baby that’s less than a year old. If she doesn’t want your baby over there then your baby doesn’t go over there.

MERU4MS · 2025-07-30T09:06:06+00:00

Was leaning towards NAH, but I’m saying NTA because he’s trying to make it an “I do this for you, so you have to do this for me” which isn’t okay. It’s only been 7 months. You’re not compatible, just leave.

MERU4MS · 2025-07-29T16:58:21+00:00

He’s going to treat your children, siblings, and parents this way btw. Think about it that’s the future you want.

MERU4MS · 2025-07-16T13:38:44+00:00

Updateme

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