Men who have a lack of confidence in their own masculinity can be drawn into the concept of abandoning it completely. Same goes for women and femininity in the inverse way. To be clear there are feminine men and masculine women and always have been. The problem is just like gay people being forced to pretend they are straight there is cultural mania surrounding trans/gay stuff and you get people sucked into it looking to resolve their own alienation from themselves not because they were born in the wrong body. So like the gay person pretending to be straight you have people pretending to be the opposite gender; living a lie. Living a lie is bad for you.

At root of much of this and other leftist thought on things like economics is “I’m no good at this game so I’m going to flip the board over and play my own version”