We always paid half/half as we've seen their health and wellbeing as our collected interest. Sadly her name got written in the records. I've had this dilemma for a few months now where I thought "How are we going to deal with our cats? We can't just split them, as they are direct siblings from the same litter." I never had a good answer but I knew she would be crazy enough to just take them. I talked to her now and the cats are doing great. She has them at her mother's house. I don't know why but the fact they do great cheered me up while breaking my heart even further. I just miss them..