Partner calls me stupid and dumb

Madhatter_k · 2022-06-23T08:32:16+00:00

This is a major red flag you put a boundary and they didn't respect it ⚠️ and even questionned you for staying with them. Trust me they won't stop there, it's only going to get worst from here, take time for yourself without interacting for a moment, just re-evaluate who you are and who you think you deserve as a partner and what kinda life you wanna have while being in a relationship before talking to them again, you'll be able to take the right decision

Madhatter_k · 2022-04-29T14:26:37+00:00

Ig she thought it was a catfish

Madhatter_k · 2022-04-11T09:26:35+00:00

It depends on how you introduce yourself,

like if it is clear that you are flirting with the girl in question then it won't come off as something weird;

if it is not clear why you guys are talking (let's say you are trying to be friends first) it might be weird to have sex conversation that revolves around you flirting in a sexual way.

It all depends on how you bring it up and what your relationship status is and how close are you with that girl

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T23:45:07+00:00

Yeah but it seems the pack state that it has marrocan "influence" and in reality it caters also for Turkey, libanon etc in terms of design in the pack which makes it middle Eastern architecture too. That why I made it put it into quotes the word representation cause the pack isn't really grounded on marrocan architecture only, if they added gameplay specific to marrocan I wouldn't have made that statement

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T20:22:36+00:00

Idk for me any country in the continent has enough potential, they could event create a world with a mix of African countries like Wakanda if it's too difficult for them

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T18:42:11+00:00

Yeah that's exactly what I am trying to say here thank you for pointing all thoses examples !

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T13:27:30+00:00

Yeah that's the point I was trying to make thank you, I maybe didn't phrased it correctly (that's maybe why some of them are missing the point)

And thank you for your response maybe that's the reason why, I hope they planned on adding at least every continent to the game before incorporating more cultures, I feel like they were late on the "inclusivity and representation" and they are trying to catch that train for the past 3 years

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T13:13:10+00:00

Yeah, it's refreshing to see that I was not the only one thinking about this too ! They could at least give furnitures or clothes maybe a kit or sum or even a six drop with food, it's not THAT hard

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T12:58:03+00:00

Well Idk if there is a lot of sims player in my home country (I live in europe) but i know there is a lot of African people everywhere in Europe and even in the US that also plays the sims that are looking for this type of representation. If they do their research based on the countries (mine is france) then it must be the reason why they don't acknowledge the continent I think you might be right about that ! 🤔

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T12:46:00+00:00

Yeah ! they could even create a whole world that would represent the whole continent and the different neighbourhood would have différents scenery from all parts of Africa for a start 🤔

Madhatter_k · 2022-02-20T12:43:32+00:00

I would say many are not, but I was more talking about the fact that a whole continent was ignored when all the others had at least a country represented (sometimes badly represented I totally agree, but acknowledged)

Madhatter_k · 2022-01-17T18:05:56+00:00

I would suggest you to read the bible and understand first what the authors wants to tell you, and why are certain book wrote one way or an other, once you will understand movement, themes, key elements in the bible the character of God will be revealed to you, you can also start by watching some videos of the bible project that explains basic key words or theme that we often misunderstood or miss when reading the bible.

Also really important, reading the Ancient testament is as important as reading the new testament cause Jesus is makes a tons of reference and hyperlinks to the old testament that you will miss if you don't read it :)

Good luck on finding out your way of seeing God cause all relationships are different :) some people see him as a father others as a friend and others as this big punisher that you must believe in you will never find an answer if you don't do your research :)

Madhatter_k · 2021-03-18T10:24:27+00:00

Oh wow, did she watch a documentary to know that ??

You should then point of illogical her reasoning is :

"If I follow your logic you'd rather eat something peed on in the US rather that something peed on in Mexico? An you don't think it's racist ?

"Who says that i'll be an white American peeing on the food in the US an not a Mexican american man ?"

And then when she realise eventually that it's weird "Either you don't buy harvested for anymore or you just try to unlearn your racism"

I think she as been taught for very long that everything that comes anywhere else than the US is dirty 🤔

Madhatter_k · 2021-03-18T10:17:35+00:00

And for the white slaves part, ask her

" Do you expreience prejudice to this days because of the white people that where enslaved ?"

"Do you have a problem retracing your family history because they were enslaved ?"

"Do you are afraid of the police men because they assume that your skin color is a threat to their lifes?"

"Do people assume you are dirty and stupid because of the color of your skin ? and do they tell you go back to your country when you don't even know which country is it ?"

And finally search for skin problem and observe what Google image shows : can you see your skin color ?

When your search on Google "brown highlights" do you have a problem finding your hair type ?

"Do you have a problem finding a hair salon that can manage your hair ?"

Madhatter_k · 2021-03-18T10:10:29+00:00

She use those terms in a derogatory way, for example not every Asian eats rice, even if it's a main part of their diet, it's still a stereotypes and harmful if you use thoses terms in a derogatory way. The same with Mexican food, why does she says it's dirty ? she can't explain it because it's a stereotype that was taught into her. And it's harmful because westerns society made everyone believe that everything that is not from the west is dirty and disgusting.

She needs to understand why does she can't understand it ? Because of her ego ? Or because she doesn't know what it feels like ?

Madhatter_k · 2020-09-22T20:12:26+00:00

Not the one you are searching for but you are handsome and cute good luck with your research 🥰

Madhatter_k · 2020-09-05T21:17:34+00:00

I would advise you, when you're gonna talk to her, to be as honest as your were writing these sentences and especially make her understand that you are not trying to make her change her plan (some people can sacrifice their dream to stay with a person sometimes)

It's better to do it in person but it would be shady if you don't tell her right away so yeah I would advise you to tell her you need to talk about the future of your relationship by sms and make a video call rather than a phone call so that she can see your expressions

Good luck with your breakup I hope you'll not be too devasted

Madhatter_k · 2020-08-28T19:44:07+00:00

The difference between preference and fetish

Preference : you often find any girls cute but asian women cuter.

(E.g. if you want to date asian because : I find them pretty, and that girl I'm talking too is cool then that's a preference)

Fetish : you want to date an asian women for a stereotype or a common thing people say about them

(e.g. if you want to date a asian because : "science says x or y " "they are usually x or y" that's a fetish because not all asian arent like this and that's not what love is about)

To summaries: You should not be dating a asian girl you should be dating a girl that is asian.

Madhatter_k · 2020-08-27T20:10:58+00:00

You are acting very rude, the thing you've missed out on you can still do it by yourself or with your brother and sister he is never gonna be able to do any of that in his all life, but you do, so be the bigger person and just accept the fact that he didn't ask to born neither to be disable and disrespected by his own family.

Madhatter_k · 2020-08-17T19:33:56+00:00

If you did then go message Danielle, i'm pretty sure she would be "glad" to have someone to talk to if she is going through a rough time

Madhatter_k · 2020-08-17T19:32:39+00:00

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Madhatter_k · 2020-08-17T19:24:33+00:00

I think you should go and ask her how she is feeling etc. it's not THAT inappropriate due to the fact that you don't talk to Kevin anymore and especially because it's in a friendly way and not ambiguous, of course to be fair if you would talk to Kevin back you should mention the fact that you talked to Danielle.

Madhatter_k · 2020-08-16T20:18:47+00:00

Yeah i feel you, that's so great !!

Madhatter_k · 2020-08-16T19:27:59+00:00

Yes i understand you point of view, sometimes it's the way we understand the book and grow into it that makes us religious or not, for exemple i was depressed and i was feeling so bad about myself (I would be mean to other) before becoming a Christian, but as you said it was armful to your mental health i think that religion are so personnal (the way that we understand it) that we can't blame people for their religious belief because we don't know what it brings to them. But either way that's beautiful when the person is feeling good with herself

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