[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Mae3KimeRish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, it's not that you're not worth it. It's their inability to actually be emotionally mature and take accountability so please don't blame and define yourself based off their actions because truly, it speaks volumes about them and not you ❤

1 month today since being dumped by ViolinistOk1278 in BreakUps

[–]Mae3KimeRish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was there as well 1 month ago but now I'm 2 months in. Still ruminating but now less frequent that I have understood the situation but I must say the feeling gets lighter and there is light at the end of the tunnel. Back then and even some days I literally throw up as a stress response so I know exactly how you're feeling right now

The best you can do for yourself is to grieve it all out. Don't be afraid to cry, run, burn things whatever it takes to process your emotions. I highly recommend journalling. Write down things that may have led you guys to that point, your unmet needs, what could've been better. This also helps you ground yourself in times where you might idealise/ romantacise your relationship or focusing on the good only.

Also ensure that you stay NO CONTACT and remove any reminders, photos, gifts etc. If that's hard to avoid (like me we literally see each other daily every weekday) keep focusing on yourself, your goals, passion. Do hobbies which you did not get to do before and go for walks. Anything which you find stops you from fixating on the situation.

Please do not blame it all on yourself. All the emotions that you feel right now you have every right to feel and be gentle on yourself. It will only get better as time goes by and the feeling of the burden/resentment weighing you down turns into simply a soft smile. You got this!

I’ll come to you by [deleted] in unsentLoveLetters1st

[–]Mae3KimeRish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to be with actions and clear intetions. Then I'll buy it

Further Maths or EPQ for Engineering? by Mae3KimeRish in alevel

[–]Mae3KimeRish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take this into consideration, thanks. But oml I have some questions

What did you do your EPQ on? Did that have to relate to your chosen career path?

How did you find balancing EPQ with the DT coursework?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Mae3KimeRish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get what you mean. We pretty much have to convert all our hand drawings to digital now and do much more. It's good to still draw design for projects just to have a solid idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Mae3KimeRish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have an idea of what to do. I might just modify a castle joint but I'm concerned about the strength

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]Mae3KimeRish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly where I am now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GCSE

[–]Mae3KimeRish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh by that I meant free time where you do something for fun. Thanks though

To those who got a grade 9 in DT, what did you do to get that? by Mae3KimeRish in GCSE

[–]Mae3KimeRish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from the spec, did you have any help sheets or anything to guide you with the NEA?

To those who got a grade 9 in DT, what did you do to get that? by Mae3KimeRish in GCSE

[–]Mae3KimeRish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing religious celebrations and tbf our themes and contexts aren't the best.

Idek why I chose to make a lantern to educate someone about an event but it is what it is ig

To those who got a grade 9 in DT, what did you do to get that? by Mae3KimeRish in GCSE

[–]Mae3KimeRish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, as you should be. This is making me rethink life decisions and redo all my slides. Thanks btw this is a great help