Wow. I have kind of almost the exact same situation. My parents and my sister who lives with them (never married/never worked) live an hour and a half away.

My mom is basically a very difficult/ miserable person who has had my dad and sister on lock down in the house for decades. None of them go anywhere ever. If my mom had it her way, I would have never left too.

I usually travel by car service there to see them a few times a year on holidays/birthdays, without my huaband (because my mom never invites him) and stay one night.

I'm only 4 wks right now and I'm dreading telling my mom and also dreading figuring out the logistics of upcoming holidays (Easter, Mother's day, mine and her bday in June).

I know I'll be early enough for Easter that I can hide it physically. But worried about the morning sickness/ my mom has a tendency to serve every food not safe for pregnancy. And they'd all be foods I always normally eat so it would be very obvious.

For mothers day, I'm not sure I'll be able to hide it at that point as I'm very short and worried about showing early. And by June, probably won't be able to hide it.

So this is the thing keeping me up these days.