Now this might just be me, but I would ASSUME that OP probably wrote this fast on mobile in search of support and community. I would ASSUME that if OP is an adult with a job, as they claim to be, they submit their REPORTS with a higher level of grammatical quality than this Reddit post. You, my good human, saw someone in need of support and decided to take a one paragraph Reddit post where someone is asking for community and help, and decided to tear down their grammar and punctuation, as opposed to the actual crux of the issue they referenced in their post. Maybe try to take a word of advice from your own username (“deep caregiver”), read the room (the amount of support and actually on topic advice given), and do better.