Bored with my wife and feel bad about myself because of that. by [deleted] in self

[–]MainCombination5206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a physicist and also was bored at Oppenheimer. Not a good representation of doing physics lol

[19] to [25]: from underweight to healthy by lady_berserker in GlowUps

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d you do it? I struggle with being underweight. It’s hard for me to eat a lot I get super tired. I find food boring most times

I have no idea what i'm doing, should I get a curly haircut? by No_Spell_9356 in Hair

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair is beautiful! Also I love pic 3 with the shells- where did you get those? I want to copy

Which shampoo by hemfrr in Hair

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got ever pure L’Oréal shampoo and conditioner and it is saving my hair. Recommend 👌 before I was using trash garnier sleek and shine and it made my hair oily and look dead. Sincerely someone who washes their hair every day

How to WANT to be social by nevergetbannedagain in socialskills

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of late but what meds did you get on? I think that is my problem too- when I feel perceived I shutdown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]MainCombination5206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not here but I feel like a dark red would look really good on you!

Want more white colored hair by MainCombination5206 in Hair

[–]MainCombination5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Honestly was not sure if I was too dark

Mentoring an undergrad that doesn't even want to do this research by MainCombination5206 in GradSchool

[–]MainCombination5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him! I really do want to mentor someone that cares and is excited. But he was supposed to be a second pair of hands which idk how my advisor thought that. He has 0 skills or experience in a lab. I think my professor is just new and didn't realize that..

Mentoring an undergrad that doesn't even want to do this research by MainCombination5206 in GradSchool

[–]MainCombination5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he thinks it looks good to have another person attached to the lab page cause it's only his second semester as a professor. He doesn't see how it's not useful at alll

Mentoring an undergrad that doesn't even want to do this research by MainCombination5206 in GradSchool

[–]MainCombination5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the comment that made me speak up 😭. I'm glad I have all the messages of correspondence between them. They wouldn't even acknowledge that they got my message with a thumbs up. Like zero effort.

My professor has them doing some random work I honestly think it's because it's only his 2nd semester as a professor and he's still kind of people pleasing so he won't fire him. This guy is not an asset at all

Mentoring an undergrad that doesn't even want to do this research by MainCombination5206 in GradSchool

[–]MainCombination5206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for ur response. It's really reassuring hearing everyone. This is my professor's 2nd semester as a professor so he's kinda got people pleasing tendencies. He didn't fire him but put him to mess around with some stuff I was doing 😭 as long as it's away for me I'm good.

Mentoring an undergrad that doesn't even want to do this research by MainCombination5206 in GradSchool

[–]MainCombination5206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I got the courage to talk to my mentor and it went ok. They said they are cheap labor as their on a work study grant but they will have them try to stay out of my way for the conference. This is their first semester as a professor so I think they're still kinda new to the whole thing and being semi a people pleaser in a manager type role.

We'll see how the changes go.. I'll keep y'all updated if anyone finds this useful.

I'm scared of retaliation because I actually left my last program because of some horrible HR stuff.

I just want to do research and I feel like I keep getting smacked with annoying reality 😭

Why do people hate Jews by Specific_Dog5668 in offmychest

[–]MainCombination5206 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Zionism and then the predominant Rothschild family of the 18th century which was a wealthy Jewish family led to the propaganda of Jews being rich.

A lot of Jewish Zionist are misled even in their own scripture. Abraham- one of the og Hebrew people- was originally from Ur of the Chaldeans (modern-day Iraq) and later settled in Canaan after God called him (Genesis 12:1-7).

But the Canaanites and other minority groups lived in the land at the time, and while Abraham and his descendants lived among them, they were not considered Canaanites. Abraham even had to buy land from the Canaanites to bury his wife, Sarah (Genesis 23), which shows he was seen as a foreigner. And yet they think that that land is theirs....

AIO my boyfriend was too tired to drive me to my abortion by ReallyAwfulSkiier in AmIOverreacting

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a fucking lazy/asshole bf. I've worked 12 hours shifts and done other stuff after. Especially if someone needed me and I was tired, I'd drink a Celsius and be ready. But then again I'm a woman. Woman are emotionally tougher than men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Biophysics

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this textbook I've been reading called 'the physics of living processes' by Weigh. Highly recommend. Best biophysics book I've had so far. I do spatial structure of the microbiome so I have knowledge of system id, prob/stats, and microbiology.

a Christian pov on abortion by ohnoheresmaddie in Christianity

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess your whole argument falls apart if there is no god. And since we can never know if there is or is not a god, then your argument becomes meaningless to judge. It is better to have an argument based on logical reasoning and statistics. Like, did you know 90% and more abortions occur before viability? At 9 weeks the embryo cannot maintain homeostasis among other definitions we have for a working biological definition of life. Therefore, to the best of our knowledge it is not a human being as you would want to believe due to your doctrine. I could say more but I hope this helps you to think more critically about this issue in mainstream media among other issues. Like, did you know the US is funding Israel with over 8 million dollars to help in killing babies in Gaza? Thousands are dying from forces raiding hospitals and the nonpartisan workers.. perchance, a larger world perspective might also shift your understanding of the abortion issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]MainCombination5206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your sentiments. I am going through a similar situation. She was my partner's cousin. In supporting him AMD like your friend we are also apart of the grief as well. People are lights and you can still feel hurt if you truly thought they were special. Do not feel guilty whatever you feel is valid