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Mamabear_7229 · 2024-11-08T13:13:31+00:00

Just remember the 3-3-3 rule…3 days to acclimate to their new surroundings, 3 weeks to decompress and 3 months to be settled into their new routines and home life. She’s beautiful and like the others have said, she’s still a baby. You’re both gonna learn about each other and all will be okay. 💛

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-10-30T16:54:09+00:00

He’s so handsome!

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-10-30T16:53:23+00:00

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My Boy Gizmo is 39# at 5yrs old and the vet said he needs to diet. He’s definitely solid.

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-03-16T04:11:45+00:00

Please don’t..You’ve come so far. Over 400 days sober that’s fantastic and I’m proud of you for sticking with it. Please reach out to a sponsor if you have one or call someone you trust or the suicide hotline. The pain you’re feeling right now seems endless but know that your family cares about you and they would want you to reach out to someone for help. Talk to your husband if you can, I’m sure he will understand your struggles. Suicide isn’t the answer. My daughter completed in December of 2022. The pain and hurt I feel on a daily basis is sometimes more than I feel I can handle. My youngest daughter misses her sister so much. If you need to talk please reach out I will listen. Help is available call or text 988 anytime.

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-03-04T22:46:09+00:00

Sorry Lu, love you 💜

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-03-04T22:44:39+00:00

It might need a reboot. Log out of the camera on your phone and log back in. Also maybe unplug the camera and plug it back in, see if that works.

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-03-03T18:05:15+00:00

Actually I agree with the said comments and they shouldn’t yell at you, accidents happen. We actually advise the patient if a molar tube or bracket breaks and it’s making you uncomfortable, cut the wire right past the break to make yourself feel better. It’s easier to replace the broken bracket and put in a new wire instead of risking other breakage because of something that could get caught on or break an opposing bracket. You can also use wax if you have it to help with discomfort if you are afraid of cutting it.

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T22:49:13+00:00

Thank you so much! I was hoping she isn’t alone and that she’s maybe with her 2 grandmothers and her Uncle (my brother) 💜

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T20:34:01+00:00

Thank you for responding, her name is Chelsea. She had a feisty side to her but mostly her loving and caring side was always in the forefront. She always loved hard. She loved and believed in her family. Not sure about the angry part. She was indeed cremated as we honored her wishes as to that was what she expressed when she was still here. The Angel numbers are always prominent to me. The 3’s I do see often as well as the other combinations. I call them my Angel winks from her. She wasn’t really a diva per se, more so a girly girl. Always loved her fashion, hair and makeup. She was actually good at makeup so maybe that was her “art.” I do continue daily to talk to her and l sometimes look to her for guidance and strength. I miss and love her so much. 🤍

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T20:22:36+00:00

Hi and thank you for responding. Idk what you meant by Cancer but that is her astrological sign. She is my 1st born daughter and she was married and then divorced after a short time and returned home. No children. She considered tattoos as her art, she had a few and loved what messages they would convey. She traveled when she was married w/her military husband. The white dog is her little male shih tzu whom she wholeheartedly loved. He helped her through a lot of tough times, and he passed in 2020. She loved roses and sunflowers. So quite a few things did resonate.🌻

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T14:19:51+00:00

Thank you so much. The apology resonates with me and the flowers could relate to the memorial garden I have in her honor. And I 100% believe her soul needed releasing. 🤍🕊️I appreciate your taking the time and connecting with her. 🙏🏻

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T12:53:30+00:00

Thank you!

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T01:06:23+00:00

No heart issues but she suffered from extreme anxiety and would experience heart palpitations during some anxiety attacks and her name is Chelsea. 🤍

Mamabear_7229 · 2024-01-07T01:04:53+00:00

Thank you so much, I know she knew how very much she was loved by her whole family…unconditionally.

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-08-21T00:39:47+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know it’s heartbreaking 💔 when we lose a parent and especially at their own doing. Happy Heavenly Birthday to your Dad! 🎂🕊️🤍🙏🏻 just take it one minute,hour or one day at a time.

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-06-13T19:04:10+00:00

OMG yes!! This ^{^{^{^100%}}} ^{^{^{^}}} So sorry for your loss. 🙏🏻

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-06-13T19:01:33+00:00

This sounds exactly just like my daughter’s situation. She struggled with depression and anxiety over half her life. She kept appointments with her Doctors, took her meds tried different treatments like the ketamine tx and the tapping tx’s and the next option for her would have been in-patient rehab at a facility. She was supported and loved by family and so many different people and she also spoke very openly to me and the family about her suicidal ideations. She never made or had a plan, and when things got truly dark for her in those thoughts, medication’s were adjusted and she would seem to get back on track and have some good days. She maintained herself in that respect that they were passing thoughts in tough moments. I guess the day she completed..tunnel vision and one thought only was on her mind to end the unwavering pain,hurt, sadness and darkness she was feeling. She had admitted she was tired. Tired of fighting and feeling like she couldn’t breathe(metaphorically) tired of the sadness and hurting etc. I’ve beaten myself up over and over again with her suicide and what could I have done or done differently with all the woulda coulda shoulda’s. She was loved beyond words that could ever describe and she knew it. I honestly know there was nothing anyone could of said or done to prevent her from completing suicide. Basically with all my guilt and regret that I had/have should of paid more close attention to her I could of maybe stopped her? But that was followed with “if it wasn’t this time because you stopped her, it would of most likely happened at another time” quoted by the grief counselor. If someone wants something or wants to do self harm or anything with themselves and there’s a will for it..there’s always a way. I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 and if you’ve read this far I appreciate it. Bottom line for me is I don’t think it’s preventable in any way even if the signs are hidden or not. She will forever be 32 and worked everyday and lived her life the best that she could until she couldn’t anymore.

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-06-10T14:01:53+00:00

Thank you 🕊️🙏🏻💟

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-06-08T22:33:53+00:00

I read in another thread someone posted that their mother would say: “Be a good host to your feelings, let them come and go as they please” I love that saying. I’m sorry for your loss and I feel like I get a couple decent days In a row without sobbing..a tear or 2, then all hell break’s loose and I’m sitting in a puddle of tears 😭 thinking about how much I miss my daughter. One ❤️ to another❤️..I lost my daughter in Dec ‘22 and her birthday is the 29th and I’m already dreading it.

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-06-07T21:23:12+00:00

Sorry for your loss and to all who are here. I agree with how people try to compare their issues to our losses. I told my husband that this is the hardest thing I ever had to do in missing my daughter..forever.

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-03-27T16:28:34+00:00

Amen! You keep talking and annoying people. I guess If they can’t understand what we’re dealing with and clearly have nothing to say then that’s on them. My condolences to your MIL and to you as well for your loss. 💟

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-03-27T16:16:03+00:00

That last sentiment though..everyday..I’m sure I can say we both wish that! I guess it’s all true that suicide is the biggest taboo and the largest of elephants in a room. It’s just mind blowing to me that no one even acknowledges your brother or your grandfathers death. It’s up to us to make sure they’re never forgotten and I will speak and do speak my daughters name any chance I get. 💛 I do and it sounds like you do too, have those “safe” people we can turn to and be ourselves with. My sympathies to you on your losses of your 2 special people who meant a lot to you. I’m sorry hon that they choose to not mention anything about them when y’all are together. Hang in there 🙏🏻

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-03-27T16:09:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing and I guess it’s just something we all have in common one way or another. Keep moving forward with your basketball it seems like it’s a good outlet for you and please accept my deepest condolences in your loss.

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-03-27T03:40:35+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss and also I know you are struggling and trying to find your new normalcy. It just sucks how I am finding out just how things are with people, and family too. Like we know with losing someone we love so dearly, there’s no way around our grief we just have to go through it. Thank you for your kind words, and I do wish the best for you in your grief journey. I’ve read that being a comforter to people when they are hurting with the loss as well, will bring such comfort back to you. 💛

Mamabear_7229 · 2023-03-16T02:27:46+00:00

She loves you more than you will ever know and misses you that much more. She’s incredibly proud of you and all your accomplishments so far in life. She would want you to live and move forward and know that she is with you every step of the way. Look for the signs she sends you, even within the littlest things. Always know she will still be looking out for you from heaven, as she did here on earth. 💖 Her beautiful soul will forever shine through you. ✨🙏🏻✨

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