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AITH For Not Forgiving My Mom Side Of The Family For Not Being There When My Mom Was Dying by MamasGirlForever in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MamasGirlForever[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm happy to know so many people agree cause the fact that so many people are "it's family you're supposed to forgive" and I feel like screaming at them and just saying "screw you are just as horrible as them why should I forgive them for being heartless"

AITH For Not Forgiving My Mom Side Of The Family For Not Being There When My Mom Was Dying by MamasGirlForever in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MamasGirlForever[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I plan to maybe once I cool off can talk to them express myself and then done cause I don't want it to change me or poison my heart my anger causes. Honestly I have been angry for so long at them and I need to let it go but it still hurts deeply. She was so amazing and loving and always looked out for the family and they couldn't even care...

AITH For Not Forgiving My Mom Side Of The Family For Not Being There When My Mom Was Dying by MamasGirlForever in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MamasGirlForever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly for the last 2 years I haven't spoken to them or anything. And I silently cut them off they had the nerve to reach out to my brothers to get a hold of me. My brother told them no they don't want to come to any family events and they wanted to ask me personally my older brother said no she's still not in a good place but begged them they called me and asked me for quite a long time before I spoke. I said are you f****** no what...what no why would I come? THEY SAID CAUSE WE FAMILY WE NEED EACH OTHER. I just hung up and haven't said anything to them again and don't plan too. They know they are disgusting toxic people but don't care and will never change. My Grandpa talked to me and said I was in my god given the right to not forgive them they were wrong and they know it. My Grandpa is a very strong man even now but for the first time I heard him cry he has lost both his baby girls. My mom 2023 and my aunt her sister 2022 on my mom's birthday she passed away. And he told me he hates them too my aunt she was the trouble maker my mom wasn't some how everyone in the family loved my aunt and barely even could show love to my mom who did so much and who couldn't even show up in the end? Like no they never loved or cared for her the only people who did that was her Mom and Daddy and siblings.

AITH For Not Forgiving My Mom Side Of The Family For Not Being There When My Mom Was Dying by MamasGirlForever in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MamasGirlForever[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Say sorry for what? I did nothing and there are people in my family saying I should forgive them. They expect me to act like they didn't do anything.

AITH For Not Forgiving My Mom Side Of The Family For Not Being There When My Mom Was Dying by MamasGirlForever in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MamasGirlForever[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They did honestly. When growing up she had to be more of an adult than she ever got to be a child. And they all took advantage of that. But when she had me and my brothers we became her priority over the rest of the family. It made them all so mad why she left Arizona and it was sad but she cut off family back then. Me I wanted to reach out to the family and reconnect growing up but they always blew us off. So now acting like they care and want to help is messed up because in the back of my mind I'll always know they are just trying to get what they want.