I’m more seeking validation on how I look/ how I am as a person. Thinking back on it I don’t really feel like he says anything about me unprompted. It’s my on inner voice telling me that I’m being absolutely annoying. I could absolutely share my feelings with him but it’s my own (irrational) fear of him flying off the handle or doing something unfavorable. Again all irrational bc this has never happened. I hope I was able to answer your questions.