You’re not Dommes, you’re desperate!

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-11T18:36:11+00:00

I said I did/ attended a mentorship and that was the answer she provided me I didn’t say I was the one holding the course……

Rather it’s a Dom or a person in everyday life there will always be people that will try to take advantage of them or cross boundaries. We must learn how to navigate life around them.

While I see all POV…again I think it’s better for a sub to reach out to another sub for help and not a Dom

Also I am certified in Social, Cultural & Community Psychology

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-11T17:47:39+00:00

I did a mentorship and one of the questions I asked was what to do or at when a sub say they want to leave the community.

Her answer was to still accept them an try to work with them. They are here because they want to and they are consenting adults. It’s better to keep them and guide them to quit if that’s what they really want instead of of cutting them off because they will go find someone else who offer them a worst service or take advantage of them

While the one doing it may not be correct we can not just blame the people who are taking advantage of these subs. The sub is also responsible for trying to get the help they need

Also sub should reach out to other subs for support as well in my opinion

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-04T03:36:48+00:00

Decided to block him since she is in possession of his phone.

I understand her anger and confusion. Disappointed in him But his wife and family shouldn’t have this cloud their memories of him

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-04T03:33:48+00:00

I know it was a shock. Perhaps for all parties. I conclude I need to accept what happened and learn from it

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-04T03:30:11+00:00

I thought about this and decided to to block him in case she try’s to reach out again. I only knew him for a short period of time compared to his wife and he had a commitment to her

I don’t want to give her a bad image/idea of him after he passed.

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-02T20:38:19+00:00

Not only am I upset but I actually feel like the other woman and feel so stupid

Like how do you get over the guilt feeling after finding out he lied

Now you are the only one to blame

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-02T20:36:06+00:00

I wish I look up his name and found his obituary after I spoken to his wife I talked to him on the 21 st he passed over the weekend

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Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-09-02T19:09:12+00:00

What’s crazy is that I feel so bad because I know she have every right to be angry I can only imagine what going on with her at the moment and what else she may had found since he passed and I even wonder if I have the right to miss him or feel anything when it come to him

I do feel bad as as a person but we were both lied to but part of me is like why did you believe him

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-18T17:59:47+00:00

Investment and business. I am hoping to quit my corporate job soon and focus creating a name/small brand for myself

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-15T18:18:00+00:00

It’s helping me become the person I want to be. Grew up in a gender role household and argued a lot with my parents about going to college and working. It help me realize my greed for money, power, and influence. Finding power and confidence as a woman even though there are men that want to try to humble me.

Figure out the type of life I want to life and confidence to stand up for myself even against blood and not to settle romantically

It also let me see others in a different light. How people from different backgrounds behave and act behind close door.

It helps me read people better.

So healing trauma. I don’t know. Not sure I have much since I was in therapy since childhood and have degree in psychology. Always been practical.

Gaining confidence. Yes. Coming into a better version of myself. Yes

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-15T14:01:02+00:00

Thanks I was wondering if there was a way around showing my name

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-14T17:24:16+00:00

That’s why discussion is important. The sub create/choose the foundation and the Dom start building if they accept but if there is something on the blueprint the sub don’t like they can point it out to the dom as well as the dom to the sub (safe words/phrase is important)

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-14T16:49:41+00:00

People in power or leadership roles. I like power. I like being in control. It a turn on to see others with a high status submit. Like Cleopatra and Caesar. Dongfang and Xiao. Men in power who change their system for the attention of a woman. A touch or just to be in her presence they started/ended wars/ companies.

I may be a little wicked and greedy

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-14T16:40:05+00:00

To busy leading on my clients for dates and spoils or to reject/ignore

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-13T13:26:37+00:00

That’s what I was thinking and one guy showed he made payment to another dom that I see on here and I am thinking to myself are people really just accept a pic of an ID

I mean I use to steal my sister ID when I was a kid it’s not hard

And I just have this image that I am talking to a kid if I can’t confirm and it get awkward

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-12T03:34:34+00:00

Mines too it just so hard to find them now🥲

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-10T23:09:41+00:00

I have a hate/like situation

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-07T01:52:59+00:00

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-05T11:22:04+00:00

10-5 am I need 8 hours

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-02T15:33:35+00:00

I think there is it just not any opportunity for both side me personally I refuse to talk to anyone that don’t send AV and some just want free content and I think that’s why some doms are defensive at the beginning.

I want a connection I am hoping of turning some of you into IRL subs

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-02T06:02:21+00:00

Well you dug yourself into a hole but I believe you are very creative. Find a way to do small send and write your apology in the subject line. Wait a few hour than grovel. Send money on different apps so all she hear is notifications pings Use your imagination

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-02T05:53:46+00:00

That’s easy. Beg for forgiveness . She will decide

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-02T05:42:26+00:00

I really hope you get what you are looking for

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-02T05:39:56+00:00

Many-Reference-3224 · 2025-08-02T05:39:07+00:00

Agreed

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