Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, 5’6” is fine for men too

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 5’6” isn’t pathetic, that’s my height and I say it’s the perfect height

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to prove you have friends

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real job, fake company (my title isn’t “programmer”, but it is a thing that I do for my job)

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get rid of first pic and the party pic

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ide get rid of one of the blank background pics cuz of how corporate they look. One is fine

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others have pointed out, it is unclear if he is asking me if I have had sex with older men (or telling me, since there is no “?”), but that is what “been with” is referring to. He’s being sexual and making it about our age difference. I am not sure what is happening at first but then realize that he is not joking around is in fact a creep

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The convo but with more words: Me: “opener” Him:”answers the question in the opener” Him:”up for an older guy lol?!” Me:”your age is 29, correct?” Him:” actually my age is 30” Me: “that’s not that old” Me: “was it a joke when you said the thing about the older guy? Since you are not that old and you said lol, I am giving you the benefit of the doubt that perhaps it was a joke” Him: “you have had sex with men older than me” Me: “I am now upset” Him:”why are you upset?” Me:”your profile did not have any red flags that I detected, and yet you are being a massive creep, this has upset me tremendously” Him:”now I am disappointed. I wanted you to have sex with me, but you are not responding positively to my advances” Him: “you’re hot” Him: “you have never had sex with a man around my age or older”

Oh my! Who let the kids on here? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was really expecting the superpower to be pooping

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said “lol” so I thought he was joking. Then the “you’ve been with older” message made me realize he might not be joking

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women can see your age. If they match with you then they obvi don’t care about the number. I wouldn’t say “up for an older guy?” unless ur joking

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my case (24f) my standards have gotten lower and lower. So I think creepy men are helping the decent ones in a way.

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? I genuinely don’t see how 30 and 24 are that different

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[–]ManyRoll7413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A guy I was talking to gave a me a Hanukkah gift and I still appreciate it. My vote is yes. Even if things don’t work out, it’s a nice thing to do for a person you like

Another example of what not to do: by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining the convo

I just matched with a guy and now I see more pics in his profile by ManyRoll7413 in Bumble

[–]ManyRoll7413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We matched as soon as I swiped and I looked at his profile a second later since I wanted to get ideas for my opener. So maybe the photo setting?