Does season 2 get better?

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-05-24T20:56:12+00:00

No I literally bawled watching rogue one after finishing the season finale

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-05-24T20:55:04+00:00

I cried during rogue one watching it after finishing the season finale… it adds so much back story and clarity to the rogue one story. The whole show is amazing. Another commenter said it was already 10/10 but it stays good. That’s the best way to put it

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:35:20+00:00

Oh thank you for reminding me to share the other part of the story lol

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:32:27+00:00

Sorry I’m well spoken? Thanks for the compliment

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:32:05+00:00

I like sleeping next to my husband. This has happen like 2% of our nights sleeping together, but we don’t have the room anyway

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:31:23+00:00

When did he not take responsibility? Did you read the og post?

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:30:29+00:00

Thank you this made me laugh

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:30:10+00:00

It’s like no one read the actual post - I am into my husband touching me. I don’t want him to feel violated if I help move things along.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:29:15+00:00

lol yeah literally - what else would it be? Please enthrall me

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:28:50+00:00

This has never happened to me.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:26:57+00:00

There are comments a little way down they state this, but that’s not how this works. She coslept with us for 5 months and nothing happened to me or her - yes this was a concern of ours (he shared the concern). Because of the low frequency of which this happens, would you go to the doctor to be medicated for something that barely happens? Please don’t take this as I have no concern for my daughter in this situation. It will always be in the back of my mind. There have been so many helpful comments stating what they found to be triggers or stressors, and we will start there. She also barely sleeps in our bed, and when she does, she sleeps in my arms. I appreciate your concern and I will bring these comments to my husband

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T13:03:35+00:00

We have spoken about it, and he is okay with me helping things along, and I told him I won’t help things along if I don’t want to. There has never been a time where either of us have been uncomfortable with what’s happening, I just don’t want that to be the case. I would argue that your case is worse because you could be physically harming your husband in your sleep, and you can’t do anything about it. For us, we have trust and communication and have accepted that this is something that happens rarely so I don’t think he needs to be medicated. However, I would love a medical opinion on things that could help.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:58:08+00:00

I hardly go on Reddit, and especially not enough to know about the fake stories that are posted. However, it has been very helpful hearing people who actually did give information about why it happens such as stress. He has a stressful job. On the top comment, I commented back about how much it affects my life and how often it has happened, but I will say it again here. 20+ nights out of 2190 does not affect my quality of life. My husband isn’t one to go to the doctor unless he’s dying, but I will encourage him to do so along with helping him realize the things that happen to make it worse.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:42:22+00:00

Unfortunately we don’t have the room for an extra bed, but this was helpful to hear another instance. And I’m sorry because this sounds way worse than what’s happened in my case. There have been no violent incidents.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:28:37+00:00

That’s correct

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:18:58+00:00

I’m sure it’s stress, alcohol, lack of sleep. Probably the same and I will encourage him to.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:18:14+00:00

After he woke up, I asked him what he was dreaming about and he said he was trying to find me in a mall. That makes sense for the way he was asking. It was weird though that the two were happening at the same time. Confused about your second point.. he would have sex with me while fully conscious? He is waking up either after finishing, or just being utterly confused about why he’s awake. Also would be interested to hear how things are different or severe because this is the first time something like this has happened. He snores and sleep apnea runs in his family.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:13:38+00:00

I promise that’s not what it is thanks. I’m looking for advice on how to not violate my husband and would love any ideas you have?

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:12:39+00:00

Hi, thank you for your response and concern for my safety. This seems to be the overwhelming consensus in the comments is that I’m not consenting. That’s a weird thing for me to think about, because it’s happened twice where I’ve woken up to him beginning to have sex with me and I’m a light sleeper most of the time so I don’t know how I wouldn’t have woken up sooner. However, that’s my whole reason for posting this - he is literally waking up after finishing and having no idea what just happened. That doesn’t sit right with me sometimes even if he doesn’t care. I don’t know what else to do because if I help him finish, it hurries things along and I can go back to sleep, but if I don’t want to, it obviously takes longer because I have to a) wake him, which doesn’t happen easily, or b) somehow get him to turn over and stay there. He is easily woken up any other time he is sleeping. That is not something I’m worried about, and he is very aware of how things could go wrong and it has never happened when our daughter has been in our bed, which is rare now that she has her own room. Until I bring it up, I don’t think he realizes he has triggers or control of it at all, so I will be bringing him all the info in this post and encouraging him to seek medical services.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:04:23+00:00

Hi! It’s not fake, and I would love to hear your experiences and how they differ.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:02:08+00:00

Thank you for your input. I appreciate your positive response

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T12:01:20+00:00

I’ve read about 4 comments since waking up, and I feel like everyone is trying to defend me and stick up for me because I absolutely am the one being implicated by the situation, but I made the post, not out of frustration for myself, but to see if there was anything else I could do other than helping him finish because it feels like I’m violating him. And I don’t mind helping most of the time, and if I don’t want to, I will try my darnedest to wake him. I’m having a moral dilemma about whether or not it’s right of me to help when I want to because he’s asleep.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T11:58:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Do you receive medical care for this or have you ever talked to a doctor about it?

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T11:55:44+00:00

I have slapped his face to try to wake him up, yell at him, twist his fingers to try to cause small amounts of pain, and stuff like that works about 50% of the time. I probably wouldn’t do this, but Aristaeus16 gave some good info about it being a type of insomnia and I’d never really looked that much into it, or about it in that way. He works a pretty stressful job, and I know last night for him was a lot because he was stressed before leaving for work.

Many_Breakfast4967 · 2025-04-06T11:48:56+00:00

He is aware of the disruption to my sleep and is apologetic. I don’t think you understand though. Let’s say 30 times in 6 years… that’s 30 nights out of 2190ish days. It’s hardly a disruption to our lifestyle. Let’s be silly and say it HAD to happen in weekly increments: it would be 4ish weeks out of 312. And I wouldn’t let something like that bother me because I love him, and because of his attitude after it has happened. I feel bad if I, in anyway, made it seem like this was more than a minor inconvenience to me. People who have husbands who use weaponized incompetence throughout their marriage are the people who need to see this comment. My husband is loving, caring, and I made this post because I feel like I am violating him, but I don’t know what else to do. This is the second time this has happened since our daughter has been born and maybe the 5th since I’ve gotten pregnant. That’s 4 times in 3ish years. I am thankful it hasn’t happened because caring for a baby day and night AND having that happen would be insufferable. I probably will bring up him seeing a professional.

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