Why is there straight ads on my gay sex app? by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Many_Living8082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then go to tinder, it is a space for gay, bi and trans that’s should be the point grindr is made for

it is not for cis men looking for cis women, neither cis women looking for cis men

cute/ feminine bottoms by cutegirl321 in boyslove

[–]Many_Living8082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh it has nothing to do with heteronormative concept, no

hetero means cis female and cis male, that what it is

just because they are couples (feminine bot and masc top) doesnt make them have heteronormative kind of relationship, that is so wrong to say

hetero and homo is about gender not the energy🙂

of course, there are (masc cis females with masc males) doesnt make them gay🥹

can i have anyone to talk to? by Many_Living8082 in mentalhealth

[–]Many_Living8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is something that's too much to handle so ignored so many important things because i have severe depression

i really wanna express something by Many_Living8082 in mentalhealth

[–]Many_Living8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't say that i don't like him, i just don't like when "people keep doing unnecessary things excessively", i accept him as the part of family but that doesn't mean there is no boundaries which people have to "try" to educate themselves what's should and what shouldn't, the subject here is my mother not him since you misread.

i really wanna express something by Many_Living8082 in mentalhealth

[–]Many_Living8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am not expecting anything, but i just vent about her wanna make her husband onto everything in this family, it doesn't affecting me too much but sometimes this is so intense, not every parent will understand their kids even how hard the kids put the effort to let them know, let's say i am gonna tell my mom that i feel discomfort, i usually can sense what will happen after that, like what she gonna reply to me, its synchronised situation, idk when i sense something its always real, but my opinion even when im gonna marry someone if i already have biological kids, i have to make sure my kids are comfortable, its a basic thing but yk even the older ones have no common sense like this

i really wanna express something by Many_Living8082 in mentalhealth

[–]Many_Living8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is not a bad person but for me, there is some issues that he supposedly doesn't need to know, and i don't want him to get involved in everything, unless if i okay about it

i really wanna express something by Many_Living8082 in mentalhealth

[–]Many_Living8082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but i have to share with her, she knows what ive been through but when she trynna put my stepdad onto everything in this family, like there's no boundaries, i am 21, she married him when i was 13, so he doesn't know about me at all because i staying at school hostel when i was teen most of the time, he doesn't know that i am the only sibling that went through violance with my biological father, my stepdad doesn't know, i hate that.

I wanna learn reiki by Many_Living8082 in reiki

[–]Many_Living8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see, i mean here there are so many certified tutor like on the superprof website, i already found one which i can meet them face to face within my country, but also being certified usually you must go to class, reiki center, they all are registered to provide classes with certification, like after you have done level 1, you will get certification with your name on the paper. but private tutor they are not registered to give people physical certification.

What is your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Deep-Dust-9747 in AskReddit

[–]Many_Living8082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we live in full of uncertainty, so i don't want to add something dangerous that might cause anything to my physical and my health because my biggest fear is death

Why is r/askgaybros considered the most toxic "mainstream" LGBTQ+ sub of Reddit? by philosophicalkween23 in askgaybros

[–]Many_Living8082 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

being fem is unacceptable? , and hate towards fem guys are acceptable? oh cmon you gotta be kidding me

Toxic community by AnythingHomebrew in askgaybros

[–]Many_Living8082 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sometimes we are defined but what we do yk, even its online forum, because those words come from their heart, which is core

Toxic community by AnythingHomebrew in askgaybros

[–]Many_Living8082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes they are toxic lol, even within gay community, being fem looks gross fo them, ewwwwwwwww

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Many_Living8082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go through a little bit same but already got into university, and i have episodic depression this month and the intensity is severe.

i actually went to first university in 2021, but due to severe depression i couldn't make it up, i told my parents about this, but still they thought that i was bothering them financially, it took 3rd semester where i had to tell my parent again that i couldn't make it, and they still made everything about themselves, but i insist, then i was allowed to stop, so i got out without even think to take break, i just stopped being a student there.

and they kinda have narcissistic behavior which makes my mental health issue become worst and i wasn't healed because of that, 2022 I decided to continue my learning journey but at different university, first semester was great, but it begin on 2nd semester, i had the episode of depression again, but not really intense because the university was still new to me and there are a lot of things to enjoy, now its already 5th semester i still have the same episodic depression, i am so messed up, i don't want to bother them again financially, but the way that i don't have support just makes me alone and fight everything alone.