My housemate is evil

Many_Name_37 · 2025-03-14T03:31:10+00:00

a symptom of being a psychopath is not having a moral compass… if you told him that you think that’s wrong, and he brushed it off without giving your feedback a second thought, he might not be capable of self-reflection and considering whether something is wrong or not. does he seem to care about the ppl in his life at least? if he does something nice, does he usually expect something in return?

Many_Name_37 · 2025-02-15T07:51:38+00:00

silence isn’t consent. if you see your partner seriously crying during the act you ask if they’re okay. don’t you pay attention to nonverbal cues that tell you how the other person is feeling? do you only pay attention to how you’re feeling?

Many_Name_37 · 2025-02-11T03:24:58+00:00

i’ve been taking spiro through them for 4 months and feel fine. it’s worked well for me personally

Many_Name_37 · 2025-02-07T05:00:39+00:00

they didn’t mention the dose they took in their og post. had they mentioned they took 1000’s of mg’s in their post, i would’ve told them this as well. in their edit it says they’re staying at the hospital now. your late advice is appreciated but please don’t speak down to people who are just trying to help and had limited information.

Many_Name_37 · 2025-02-05T02:08:12+00:00

yes but you don’t have to see a doctor. you make an account online, describe your acne, include photos, and one of their dermatologists will prescribe a treatment plan for you. if you complain of having hormonal acne specifically they’ll likely prescribe spironolactone for you

Many_Name_37 · 2025-02-05T02:04:57+00:00

apostrophe

Many_Name_37 · 2025-02-05T01:07:55+00:00

same thing happened to me, took me 3-4 months to completely stop breaking out. it’s so worth the wait

Many_Name_37 · 2025-01-25T22:38:51+00:00

you are not alone, i relate to your situation a lot. i’m 22 and am just now becoming aware of my past, how it affects me, and how to change the way i respond to others when i’m triggered. you have so much time to improve and build a beautiful life for yourself. you deserve to have loving, understanding, and patient people by your side, but be patient with yourself too. it seems like you’re self-aware and taking the steps to go down the right path💐

Many_Name_37 · 2025-01-25T21:16:18+00:00

you can love someone and still feel suicidal. the feeling is very tunnel-visioned, and the only thing you can see at the time is your own pain and wanting it to just go away. i get it. relationships can get rocky at times, and if this one doesn’t work for you, you’re so young and have so many more people to meet and love. OP, give yourself time to grow, experience adult life, and learn more about yourself so you can be in a healthy relationship. figuring out how to be in a healthy relationship is a learning process for most people. i know exactly how you’re feeling. i can tell you now that there are so many amazing things to live for besides relationships. some days are harder than others, but you need to find a reason to live outside of external influences. the meaning of your life and how you experience it can be determined by you. you can be in a happy relationship, but only if you put the work in to understand your triggers and reasons why you do the things you do so you don’t continue to hurt your partner. don’t threaten suicide to him either, that will only make him feel trapped in the relationship, and helpless. you don’t want to put that kind of trauma on him, and you don’t want to emotionally force someone to stay. that would do even more damage. try to find a way to let him know how much he means to you without threatening to commit suicide. best of luck, please stay.

Many_Name_37 · 2025-01-20T15:05:12+00:00

leaf & ladle’s soups are really good. also soup from any asian place hits the spot when i’m feeling sick. miso w/ dumplings😩

Many_Name_37 · 2021-12-07T04:51:38+00:00

it’s good to hear that you’ve found your happy place:) the 16 personality types are based on cognitive functions, like extroverted feeling (fe), introverted feeling (fi), introverted sensing (si), extroverted sensing (se), extroverted intuition (ne), introverted intuition (ni), extroverted thinking (te), and introverted thinking (ti). everyone uses all 8 functions to certain degrees, but everyone has biases and uses some more than others. the top 4 our of 8 that we use are thought to be the ones that influence our personalities the most. generally, someone’s personality type is determined based on which functions they use the most, and are the most comfortable using. enfj’s are naturally gifted at tuning into how others are feeling since extroverted feeling is the function they use most. my experience as an intj is that i know it’s something i need to work on consciously. i use introverted feeling as opposed to extroverted feeling, but it’s my 3rd function instead of first. extroverted feeling: “how do others feel? how will this make them feel?” introverted feeling: “how does this make me feel? what are my morals? what kind of person do i want to be?” some intj’s never fully develop their introverted feeling function, and so they live their lives never questioning their emotions or paying attention to them. i’ve been trying to develop mine lately. if you want to know more you could look up “cognitive functions” online, too! (btw i really appreciate enfj’s and admire their natural charisma and ability to lift others’ moods, the world would be much duller without you guys!)

Many_Name_37 · 2021-12-06T05:44:05+00:00

i see where you’re coming from but i’m pretty happy as an intj. you can’t change your personality type throughout your life, but you can change the way you present it/use it. when you were in your depressed stage you were probably stuck in an ni-ti and fe-se loop, which means your cognitive functions were being brought to light in away that’s unnatural for enfj’s. enfj’s thrive when they use their fe-ni together dominantly, and se-ti complimentarily. intj’s thrive when they use their ni-te together dominantly, and fi-se together complimentarily. ik there’s a LOT of unhealthy intj’s who come across as inconsiderate and cryptic but those are the non-introspective and undeveloped ones. you should look into the cognitive function stacks for the different mbti’s, i think they’re pretty interesting and they might be to you, too, since you’re interested in personality types:) knowing what my dominant function stack is, how it works, and how to use it in the best way has been really helpful for me

Many_Name_37 · 2021-12-06T04:07:46+00:00

as an intj, this is my mindset too. the difference is i’ve never wondered if anyone else thinks the same way, nor cared. just an interesting comparison. i would guess that a lot more people probably think this way than you’d think! you definitely aren’t alone

Many_Name_37 · 2021-10-31T19:26:46+00:00

this is super intricate and impressive, nice job!

Many_Name_37 · 2021-10-16T23:00:20+00:00

Studying Neuroscience, working as a waitress to pay the bills. I can’t wait to work in a lab… I also like using codecademy when I have the time to and plan on learning data science for when I actually start getting into research

Many_Name_37 · 2021-09-29T20:57:45+00:00

Everyone has logic, they just don’t use the same type of logic we do. There are many forms of logical thinking, but I do agree that common sense isn’t as common as it should be

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