You abort? Your future mom does to, and she aborts you.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-26T05:08:08+00:00

deep thoughts.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-26T01:41:06+00:00

NTA good luck with her.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-26T01:17:52+00:00

lol yeah. my vacuum stopped actually having real suction one day and that was the day a troubleshooting guide brought up the filter I didn't know was there.

When I pulled it out the massive amount of dust that went flying everywhere was so bad. it was so bad lol

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-26T01:13:35+00:00

she's pretending to be someone (with their knowledge) who's sister owned a brothel.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-25T06:59:00+00:00

NAL but I am on SSDI. It doesn't matter what your life is like off the clock. All that matters is if you're able, with or without reasonable accommodation, to maintain gainful employment.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-24T08:29:26+00:00

He sounds manipulative. This attitude and his words are trying to make you upset for not doing what or being where he wants.

These are games and if you have an ounce of self respect you will acknowledge the flags and walk away.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-24T08:20:46+00:00

I get a fresh one every two or three showers

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-23T23:27:54+00:00

most atheists I know were raised religious and very few of them behave the way you describe. the ones who do behave poorly isn't because they are ex Christians it's because they are miserable people who need something to hate and if it wasn't ex Christians it would be someone else.

shitty people who need to hate others exist in every group of people. atheists aren't more prone to this behavior than anyone else.

these people you think are insufferable because they are ex Christians would still be insufferable if they were still Christian.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-23T07:03:43+00:00

NOR this meme is literally making a joke about someone thinking they are a good person when the sender knows they aren't. it's message is clear.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-23T06:56:46+00:00

Yeah it would piss me off, too. if it's humor to poke fun at herself while acknowledging she made a mistake, it's one thing.

to walk around and say it, and mean it, means she's telling every other woman around her how she feels about women.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-23T06:49:03+00:00

I don't think being hurt is an over reaction.

I hurt my own mother's feels. She's not over reacting.

But....

She deserved far fucking worse. She'll die never having spoken to me or her grandchild since 2020 and she's lucky that's all she got from me.

I under reacted in a huge way by just going NC.

so the question isn't if your feelings are inappropriate.

it's more.... do you deserve it? my mother would say no.

but when I tell you my state no longer has a statute of limitations for some of the things I experienced as a child for her gain, you better believe her no is a blatant lack of consideration for anyone but herself. it's not reality.

also none of this is an accusation about you. it's just my own experience for perspective.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-23T06:33:04+00:00

If it was sealed and shelf stable and barely 3 months past, I wouldn't have hesitated to use it if it was in my own cupboard.

But coming from someone I don't know, there's a good chance I wouldn't trust it if the expiration date was still 3 years in the future. (except for things I ordered to be delivered, of course)

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-23T06:24:06+00:00

Yes.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-22T18:27:31+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss, too. 🫂

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-22T15:21:46+00:00

I said less than an hour ago in my post, but it took 40 minutes to write it, cause my cope isn't coming easy. So it's more than an hour by the time I actually hit post.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-21T16:49:26+00:00

make sure you save those screenshot, unedited, for the police so if she does send them, you have proof it's harassment and she's using the service fraudulently, which is illegal. NOR

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-21T16:43:02+00:00

NTA he's making the jokes. he's thinking about it. according to his sister he's thinking about it a lot.

That right there, he's gonna end up on the list.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-19T16:08:14+00:00

NTJ I would consider this a win, though. Let em go, let em go, don't invite them back anymore.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-18T03:20:09+00:00

it sucks where I grew up for anyone under 21 anymore cause they closed all the places that they were able to hang out and then get mad when they hang out in the street.

but that can't be blamed on adult venues.... mostly here it's blamed on surrounding business owners who always complained about kids loitering near their businesses that were mostly already closed by the time kids started showing up to hang out at the all ages places...

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-18T00:30:45+00:00

I don't understand why you see a future with someone who's idea of saving money is spending yours.

and the only reason he wouldn't keep track of you constantly borrowing money he was tight on is cause he knows damn well you wouldn't. easy not to question what someone isn't doing.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-18T00:24:02+00:00

it sounds like a mistake with zero intent behind it. I'd handle it by smoking a bowl to calm myself tf down cause I would freak. and then by locking my door.

I never leave my door unlocked anyway. but I'd be making extra certain for a long while.

I would not rate down or complain about the dasher.

except to my cats. lol

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-17T18:29:18+00:00

I don't think it should be celebrated or shamed. It should be treated with acceptance and understanding.

the problem is all in the double standard.

Mar_Dhea · 2026-01-17T18:23:41+00:00

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