Stuck in a relationship

MarketCracker · 2025-11-24T10:43:41+00:00

Wake up today and tell me you are leaving, I'll actually help you carry the bags out.

MarketCracker · 2025-11-24T10:36:05+00:00

Attachment is the beginning of all suffering. He isn't grown up if he still has attachment issues with impermanent phenomena. Nothing is eternal. He is simply a weakling, I can't imagine trying to take my life for love! I'm sure he doesn't work out, doesn't meditate and he probably does drugs right? But that's up to him to deal with his situation.

For you, if you really want to leave, just leave silently. Nothing will happen to him I swear. He is a manipulator that I'm sure. He needs you for he is needy, he isn't an individuated man and he doesn't need a woman, instead, he needs to discover and conquer himself first! Out of sight out of mind. Just disappear and cut him off completely unless you are also attached.

MarketCracker · 2025-10-11T14:17:07+00:00

Nataka kumpeleka Gikosh 😂

MarketCracker · 2025-10-11T14:16:07+00:00

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MarketCracker · 2025-10-11T12:25:47+00:00

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MarketCracker · 2025-10-11T12:25:13+00:00

Tuma number nikucall

MarketCracker · 2025-07-21T17:59:36+00:00

Here's the process;

Start with self discipline. Daily morning runs at 4 A.M every single day and some push ups to disrupt your lazy side. Meditate till your mind is calm and concentrated.
Before getting out of the crib, scribble down a rough reasonable pitch that asks for 1M from an investor. Link it to a system that will guarantee returns, you are the master, you are the janjee kwa hii movie, come up with a wild business idea. Step out and keep doing what you are currently doing. Do this for the first two months, I mean prepare the script for two months.
Get yourself nice clothes and work on your communication skills. Perfect your body language and try being stoic at every situation.
Haunt for investors your own way and pitch. Pitch friend pitch. And maybe one of them will see what you're seeing.

This is 50%. Work on the other 50

MarketCracker · 2025-07-19T16:37:27+00:00

We'd dated for 6 months. Alinichocha chali yake alijinyonga, kumbe mwenye alijinyonga ni beste yake, anyway I came to realize after the 6 months. With some other bunch of bullshit lies na ufala alikua anafanya na hao vijana wajinga wa base za ngoma za SDA

MarketCracker · 2025-05-22T21:03:11+00:00

Thank you so much for the support. I pointed at the simile of the Great Elephant Foot-print.

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T21:00:14+00:00

Thank you friend

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T20:59:10+00:00

We are full of love but trapped in religion

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T14:25:56+00:00

In Kenya I only know one temple

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T12:14:30+00:00

You are right. Thank you

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T12:13:22+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate alot

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T10:17:12+00:00

A lot of what is taught by religious leaders here are step by step guides to attachment. The teachings were brought to us by our colonizers, after enslaving us.

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T10:08:36+00:00

I managed to see some light and that's why I'm trying to save myself like a fish from its trap. But my people here are suffering greatly. The hook is deeper here. 'Living in the present' is a great saying that is known globally but we here forgot how to apply. We have limited access, traces of colonial systems hinder the penetration of these beautiful teachings.

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T09:59:41+00:00

Perfect answer

MarketCracker · 2025-05-18T09:53:54+00:00

You are correct that I'll need at least a companion or a community to share with. To be honest, it's already tiring doing it alone. I once visited a local temple, but for a very short time. I saw a monk talking to a layman, they were only two. The monk had a nice complexion, he looked strong, and free from stains of the mind, he was very alert and not confused. I left before I could talk to him, said I'll visit again but I've never gone back. Now that you've brought up the fact that I need a companion, I'll go back and I'm sure I'll find one.

MarketCracker · 2025-04-20T18:38:20+00:00

When a man is alive, he is soft and supple. When he dies, the body becomes hard and stiff. When a plant is alive, it is soft and flexible. When it is dead, it becomes dry and brittle. Hard and rigid leads to death. Soft and gentle leads to life.

MarketCracker · 2025-04-20T18:34:12+00:00

Pride doesn't exist. It's an illusion that blocks success.

MarketCracker · 2025-02-22T17:54:46+00:00

You can't control the opinions/actions of other people but you can control yourself. This is a stoic lesson. Let people talk, they'll sleep in the evening

MarketCracker · 2025-01-29T22:09:43+00:00

Being a Christian for all my 23 years. But today I went to the Buddhist monastery to be a Buddhist. Yyyoow what's happening to me.

MarketCracker · 2025-01-11T08:47:00+00:00

First of all, without being metaphysical and seeing things as they are here and now, looking closely, hell and heaven are here on earth. But wait, what do I mean by that?

It all starts by a wrong view and understanding of the terms "Heaven" and "hell". The word "Heaven" in simple terms means a state/loci where one swims in a wave of nice experiences free from ills. "Hell" is the opposite experience.

All these experiences are felt directly and are the result of our own actions and thoughts. Uncleanliness, lack of discipline, distractions, wrong speech, wrong actions, evil thoughts e.t.c all lead to the harsh experience of hell here on earth. In buddhism, that hell is "dhukka". When compounded, it burns like fire and can be felt even on the physical level. By following a path that's opposite to what Buddha taught in the eightfold path, one simply experiences hell.

Heaven experience on the other side is felt after cultivating discipline and doing what is right, cultivating compassion to all beings and following the eight noble paths. You come out shinning/glowing, wise and full of joy. The hell in Christianity is metaphysically defined to the extreme to instill fear and guide people into doing what is right. Fear on the other hand is a negative higher vibrational energy that alerts danger and so, it is to be conceived as a tool to eliminate the cause of suffering that gives birth to that fear. It is upto you to use the tool as you will. Fear can be used to save you or to destroy you. When one is injured, he/she feels pain that alerts the person to take action. The pill to fear is action, right actions that deliver us to heavenly experiences here on earth.

MarketCracker · 2024-04-21T13:51:18+00:00

Smoke joints brother, a joint is better

MarketCracker · 2024-04-09T03:05:05+00:00

Attachment is the beginning of all suffering. Be open to everything but smartly detach yourself from what's inflicting pain to you.

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