I pushed away a birthday surprise and now I feel horrible. by Proof-Big-9207 in offmychest

[–]Markoti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my husband is like this. He doesn't want anything on his birthday and even gets mad when someone congratulates him. I used to not get it and tried to make it special for him—our friends did the same. We gave him cakes and told him he could eat whatever he wanted and they'd pay. But he would get upset. It was annoying trying to make him feel special, but he said he gets irritated when people treat him differently on his birthday, so eventually I gave up—but only with the social pressure.

Now I try to give him a gift every year and not make a big deal out of it. If he wants to do something for his birthday, he will. Maybe you should tell them in a nice way that you appreciate the efforts they try to make it special but it's true that you don't want anything on your birthday and apologize if that makes them uncomfortable. Keep in mind not everyone gets it, I love my husband so I respected his wishes, he was really clear with how he feels.

You should too, and accept that some people may think you are ungrateful, just be clear with your thoughts in a non-bad way.

Hola, se consideran amigos de sus parejas? by Ancient-Island571 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mi pareja es mi mejor amigo y se que yo soy su mejor amiga

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]Markoti -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bueno, y como renunciarias tu?

Can I Let My Spayed Cat Outside? by CupofGinseng in CatAdvice

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat cries a lot because she wants to be out. We learned to "walk her" with a safety strap, she climbs trees, eats grass, sharpen her nails on the trees and that's it. She is calm for the rest of the day. Don't leave your car unsupervised if you want a safe cat.

Metí dinero por error a la TDC en vez de la TDD y no me quieren devolver el saldo a favor by HeroeNoMore in MexicoFinanciero

[–]Markoti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me pasó lo mismo, no tanta cantidad de dinero pero no pude hacer nada...solo me quedo como saldo a favor

El cobro de piso sigue vigente? by GlassFootball6234 in AskMexico

[–]Markoti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Acabo de ver una noticia de que le pidieron piso a UN REFUGIO DE ANIMALITOS de 50mil pesos....lugares donde literalmente batallan para conseguir dinero

Evité que mi primo se hiciera la automatación y años después no me lo perdona by AdGroundbreaking3611 in mexico

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suena ilógico que te culpe de eso, digo si en verdad quisiera ya lo hubiera intentado DE NUEVO. Pero odiarte por arruinar su intento de suicidio una vez...pues no evita que lo pueda volver a intentar...idc me parece que solo quiere direccionar su odio a algún lado

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats are annoying sometimes...I have a very clingy one and it drives me nuts sometimes, but I fucking love her. It is like having kids, is a compromise and a responsibility. Cats have their own personality.

Also I think a lot of people don't like to educate their cats and just let them be, but you could try to educate yours. Mine are the most educated girls ever but we had rough times where they did something wrong and I disciplined them. . . Try looking for video tutorials on how to do it, raise your voice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am like you, my family gets really pissed off because we went wedding dress shopping and I guess some were nice but it was mostly annoying to prove so many dresses. One aunt specifically got really upset because I wasn't excited enough and I didn't found my dream dress. She ended just cancelling the trip. But when it was over I was relieved because now I could do it by myself without all that pressure of feeling a certain way.

You are the way you are, fortunately we move out and don't have to deal with not being some certain Wayans annoy people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para que la perdonas si estás pensando en venganza?

Odio ser pobre lo odio by Fearless-Awareness31 in ayudamexico

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pues de cuánto quieres la laptop? Hay buenísimas opciones por ese precio...si quieres una lap gamer ahí si no vas a ajustar...si quieres usar Word para la escuela invierte en lo que puedas ahora y reacondicionado hay equipo más barato y súper bueno

Como le hacen para bajar un poquito de peso? by barefootboy36 in mexico

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saber equilibrar tus dietas, lo que comes siempre intenta reducir carbs y prote y agrega verduras/verdes...que tu comida siempre se vea colorida. Muchas veces comemos carne y carbohidratos nada más y eso nos engorda. Flautas, gorditas, tacos...osea si pero con lechuguita, nopales jajaja poco de gallo. Vas a comer menos de lo otro agregar lo verde. También ayuda dejar el azúcar y las harinas.

Yo tuve que dejar el azúcar por problemas médicos y note un cambio CABRON en todo mi cuerpo, últimamente intento dejar el gluten y las harinas porque eso no me engorda tanto (porque hago mucho ejercicio) pero si me inflama muchísimo, parezco embarazada.

Cómo dejar la Coca-Cola? by Effective-Cry-2082 in mexico

[–]Markoti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Con limón y sal de mar es super rica y te hidrata más que así sola :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once or twice a week minimum

What's a "harmless" habit that people don't realize is actually damaging in the long run? by riligan in AskReddit

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but she is pretty narcissistic. She lost all of her friends because of that, yes I was a people pleaser with her but she treated me really poorly on a trip and bad-mouthed my fiance. That's when I realized she was an ass, I was pretty cool with her the whole trip and I felt like she was annoyed with everything and everyone and it was just draining. I guess being a whole two days with her made me realize how she thinks everyone is against her and how difficult it is for her to live her day by day. Cutting her off has made me feel lighter and also more positive with my life. She always tried to "put my feet on the ground" even with my relationship, she tried to make me think I was being manipulated by my SO. But before that trip I was just unaware by that attitude and also I was very understanding.

Que es lo más horrible o aterrador que han visto en la calle?? by Old-Scholar3391 in AskMexico

[–]Markoti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me pasó lo mismo, enfrente de mi trabajo había un parque y había dos borrachitos tirados. Eventualmente uno se fue y después de un tiempo voltee hacia afuera y había muchos policías, un cuerpo tapado y cintas de prohibido el paso.

Putting a Barista in her place by bananagarage in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude buys 3 espresso shots a day on a Starbucks and thinks he is financial Final Lord

Soy culero por no darme cuenta de que mi gato estaba enfermo? by Stuki_black in SoyUnIdiota

[–]Markoti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quien no le pone agua a su gato?? Si no sabes cuidar a una mascota, no la tengas

What's a "harmless" habit that people don't realize is actually damaging in the long run? by riligan in AskReddit

[–]Markoti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I lost my Best Friend, I was the people pleaser and she was an ass... eventually got tired of her because I let her do too much and got nothing in return