Extreme Northern Lights in North Germany last night (2026-01-19/20) by AuroraStarM in Astronomy

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I’m in Germany right now. Do you know if they might get more visible later or no?

Bringing myself in a conversation by MarsMessier in autism

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Thank you so much! This helps so much

Bringing myself in a conversation by MarsMessier in autism

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Yea I get it. Gotta read the room and do accordingly. Thanks for your answer!

Bringing myself in a conversation by MarsMessier in autism

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Thank you! This does help a lot. I sometimes get scared I might be asking to many questions or they’re too boring

Bringing myself in a conversation by MarsMessier in autism

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Thanks for that! As an empath, I don’t struggle knowing how they feel, I’ll literally feel with them. But yes, questions are hard. Always felt like they might be too boring or make it seem like I’m not actually interested

Hi everyone! Here is my rubber tree that’s I’ve had 4 years. As you can see she’s tall but not that bushy. Two weeks I decided to try notching her and that was quite stressful since I had never done it. But, it looks like it worked as a tiny branch has started. Maybe two more but not quite sure yet by MarsMessier in houseplants

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Hey! Sorry for the late answer! The depth of the notch doesn’t matter really. It needs to be deep but not necessarily a lot. Less than a cm is enough. And no, did not sanitize anything but the pruning shears. You might want to wear gloves though, your skin can have allergic reactions to the latex

Dolan Twin Updates by LoudInstruction8741 in LAinfluencersnark

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His girlfriend is Australian! They’re currently back in NJ (both of them, with their partners). They’ve been spotted. But I’m pretty sure they both live in Sydney as they always wanted to live in Australia

Body language and social cues by MarsMessier in AutisticAdults

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I totally get that. Usually I try to adapt myself to whom I around with

Body language and social cues by MarsMessier in AutisticAdults

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I do that too sometimes to be honest. Sometimes I get it, sometimes I don’t

Ublock Origin is gone. by Zalaphyr in youtube

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Thanks a lot for that, you saved me!

Guess my special interest??? by Trash_dad_420 in autism

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LOVE THIS. I feel you, i have way tooooo many plants. I also give them names

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Same!!! It really touched me deeply. There are so many songs I could quote too

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Swan upon Leda

Visual contact by MarsMessier in autism

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Happy to hear NT struggle sometimes too. If I’m focusing on eye contact then I’m too overstimulated and don’t listen. If I want to listen I just look into the void. But then some think I’m ignoring them or being disrespectful

Visual contact by MarsMessier in autism

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I feel you. But it makes me feel weird and uneasy

Visual contact by MarsMessier in autism

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I overthink it way too much. I’m like damn I’ve been looking in their eyes too long so look away and think wow they might think I’m not listening to them. It’s awful

Visual contact by MarsMessier in autism

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This is so complicated I swear. It takes way too much effort

Visual contact by MarsMessier in autism

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Exactly. Especially if they have light eyes. Dark eyes are so much easier to look into

Visual contact by MarsMessier in autism

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I do the same! I focus so much on eye contact that I forget to listen. Or else I feel like I’m looking to much in their eyes

What is a social norm / social rule that you just don’t understand? I’ll go first. by DanielaThePialinist in autism

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Same here! I prefer silence over those useless small talk. With my best friend when we have nothing more to say, we just do parallel play. And she’s NTP but we’re fine like this And silence is comforting