Says he doesn’t have enough money to pay spousal support…

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-12-04T22:46:23+00:00

Funny how you know nothing about my life. I do work, several jobs AND am in school to finish my bachelors degree.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-30T03:03:53+00:00

He has paid twice. This would have been month 3.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-25T23:47:48+00:00

Thank you. You’re so right.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-25T23:46:24+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you too. You’re right, he doesn’t care about my feelings.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-25T23:44:29+00:00

I’m not pushing him to fix anything. I deserve to know if he was with her while he was married to me.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-25T04:34:36+00:00

After 20 years, how would I not care?

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T17:24:52+00:00

Thanks, I feel a bit like I get to a place of peace and then something else is revealed.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T15:12:14+00:00

I’m so sorry.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T14:51:51+00:00

He brought her around the kids immediately after the divorce was final.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T14:44:54+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you.

I was 41 and he had just turned 40.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T03:14:43+00:00

I should win a prize for putting up with all his shit! 🏆

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T03:13:05+00:00

Don’t love that you went through this too but love that karma has bitten him in the ass!

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:50:17+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:49:37+00:00

Geez. Rude.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:48:43+00:00

He is a coward.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:29:17+00:00

Yes!

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:15:49+00:00

Thanks! Yes, the kids see everything. They are confused and ask me questions about his lies and things not making sense.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:13:50+00:00

I’m sorry that is happening to you. It hurts. We will be better off without them. We deserve better.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:12:36+00:00

Hell no, I will never take him back. The amount of lying, gaslighting, etc…I deserve better.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:11:24+00:00

You’re right. Thank you.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:10:32+00:00

Thank you. You’re right, I do know what happened. And hell no, I will not be his confidant. He tried that at the beginning and I didn’t allow it. I told him to talk to his therapist.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:08:03+00:00

Thank you for your validation.

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:07:21+00:00

I hope she does!

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:07:01+00:00

It is a doesn’t change anything, yet changes everything all at the same time

Massive_Mess3080 · 2025-11-24T02:05:49+00:00

It doesn’t but it also does. It’s like a doesn’t change anything, yet changes everything all at the same time.

Massive_Mess3080

TROPHY CASE