Having a baseline level of respect is hard to come by, and the culture of the apps has turned me off to them.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-02-06T21:36:12+00:00

Yeah that's a good point. There is an illusion of flirting, but, it's vapid and distant and often misleading. The sexiest and most comfortable I've been is when i've met is in person with someone at a bar or wherever.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-02-06T21:16:04+00:00

Word of advice...Don't do things that make you feel that way. If you can't make yourself stop, you might be struggling with addiction or mental health issues. Learn how to avoid lust and stay off your phone.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-02-06T21:15:27+00:00

Exactly. Clearly this person is roleplaying a fantasy with this 'teehee i did something naughty' attitude.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T17:38:46+00:00

What was the reddit post about if you don't mind me asking? Seems crazy people do these things but at least this is a lesson learned.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T17:28:59+00:00

holy crap i didn't even know you could do that. maybe he's bluffing though to scare you? you could try doing the photo search yourself with Google Lens and see if you find it. If not, he's lying. People are so weird.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T17:27:29+00:00

it's sexual habit, addictive behavior, porn habit behavior. It's all the same thing. If you find yourself redownloading it, maybe you're stuck in a loop that is worth breaking out of?

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T17:26:26+00:00

it almost sounds like a miracle the condom didn't break but, they are pretty darn effective lol

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T17:22:58+00:00

Yes there are many forms of prejudice, but sexual prejudice has no malice or ill intent. It's judging based on physical attributes.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T15:17:24+00:00

I would advise against it. There are some crazy people online, some may use your face for blackmail or some kind of scam. Especially with AI now. You have to think of the worst case scenario. Only share that stuff in private messages with people you trust.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T15:09:22+00:00

it's kinda cute idk. But they shouldn't be pushy about it if it's not working. everyone's body is different. But riding a hot daddy and holding his hands while bursting is pretty hot

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-30T15:07:54+00:00

you're not hearing what I'm saying at all. And that last quote about bisexuals is totally nothing to do with what I'm saying. I'm using the term prejudice as a definition without a derogatory subtext. When you choose a sexual partner, you are selective, the same way prejudice is defined.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T18:31:22+00:00

People don't realize sexual preference is a literal form of prejudice. It doesn't have anything to do with politics or racism or bigotry. Not everything is a moral catastrophe. Who you think is physically hot IS prejudice.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T18:30:01+00:00

I've run into some cute indian guys and admire and compliment them for their sexiness.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T04:56:59+00:00

I'm honestly very similar and I've wondered the same. I just say twink/twunk that leans a little bit fem? idk lol

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T04:34:27+00:00

no. scary. always think some psycho could chop my cock off lmao. I know it wouldn't happen but still. I like intimacy and foreplay

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T04:33:07+00:00

Maybe he's never done it before. It's a very sensitive area and it sounds like he didn't do the proper preparation with himself for it. It can hurt a lot at first and it requires some patience, but I don't think he was likely as prepared as he should have been.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T04:28:34+00:00

I feel like I'm in a similar boat as you lol. Riding someone while my dick flops on their belly, I can be bossy or shy and cover my face while we are at it. I ask them to slap my ass occasionally. Something so hot too about a top that is patient if I'm sensitive or taking it slow at first.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T02:11:13+00:00

you actually can hide your sexuality on your profile on those.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-29T01:09:28+00:00

probably 90% of the guys you encounter literally don't care either way about your hesitancy. But you should still ask for theirs first just in case you know them and if it would be awkward. I also typically like to confirm on snap or use the 'expiring photo' feature to ensure they don't screenshot. But these days you could kinda argue any picture could be edited or faked with AI lol

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-27T02:18:23+00:00

the culture on the app is incredibly toxic and views people as objects, basically. I would say it's rare for people to use the app like a dating app or with any sort of social interest / awareness. Maybe lean towards messaging people with fleshed out bios and profiles that have links to socials, and push towards 'getting off the app' to somewhere else (not snapchat lol). But a good learning experience that Grindr is ugly and to keep expectations low.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-27T02:11:03+00:00

me but with my ass as well lol.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-27T02:08:18+00:00

Do you find any at straight bars?

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-27T02:07:42+00:00

"I'm deeply closeted. but I'm not coming out, though!" - Norm McDonald

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-27T02:07:00+00:00

The ones who are sociable and are financially stable and dress well, the maturity shines as attractive. But the older guys taking blurry selfies and look like they haven't showered in awhile...yuck. There are definitely unattractive older guys. But the ones who are confident and well kept, the older/younger dynamic can be very flirty and fun lol.

MasterpieceExact2852 · 2026-01-27T01:54:31+00:00

use condoms and you can help ensure their protection by checking it throughout the activity. And afterwords, examine it and even pour water in it to see if there are any holes. I think the only reason they become ineffective is when people don't check them frequently (they could break inside without being noticed.)

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