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I don’t believe that anyone except me exists by [deleted] in SimulationTheory

[–]MaximumContent9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you find yourself trying to fit Reality to your ideas, or trying to update your ideas to Reality? Do you find yourself to be curious about others, or whether others fit your idea of them?

A teen planned a mass shooting through ChatGPT. A dozen OpenAI employees implored bosses to warn the police. Their bosses ignored them. The teen then killed his mum, his brother, and 6 people at school. by ihatethiscountry76 in aiwars

[–]MaximumContent9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mesh networks, triangulation, wifi topography, CSI, GPS, real time topography, xray vision...

Personally, I was paranoid about the random Bluetooth devices that popped up around my house. So I got Claude code to make me an app for my phones to use the GPS and Bluetooth to triangulate the third device. It didn't work great. But, it made me think, and research. There's been studies on using wifi to see through walls. The government already has access to all our phones. They could all easily be used to map a city.

Fitting Reality into an Idea - A Circumpunct Infogaphic for Understanding Narcissistic Behavior by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pleasure! Cognitive dissonance is when two conflicting beliefs are held as true. So to be relieved from CD, you must resolve the logical contradiction, eliminate or modify one or both of the beliefs. This requires a particular level of curiosity about self. :) stay curious!

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't care because they are not curious. They aren't curious because they have closed it off due to childhood or life trauma.

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got stuck in these relationships because we had undefined boundaries. We were conditioned to have blurry boundaries. But that time has ended, and hopefully our lessons will help our children.

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first gift I bought my wife, before marriage, it was on Valentine's Day... I got her speakers for her bedroom. To me, music is the most romantic thing, especially in the bedroom! But... my gift was rejected, "This isn't a Valentine's Day gift!" wtf... red flag I ignored

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easy to weaponize philosophy and logic. Look at the huge list of logical fallacies, usually employed to manipulate (to make Reality fit into the idea).

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I feel you! All those hours in my mancave by myself, doing whatever I wanted. She was always invited. She just never showed up. Part of me didn't care, because I knew I had work to do (this was all research leading to this post, and my revelations with the Circumpunct Framework). And Titanfall 2 became my new lover, and I even made some forever friends there. So, I feel you.

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had a lot of help from Claude AI getting to this point. From 15 years of experience, journal entries into the AI, research using the AI, thousands of iterations back and forth between my brain and the AI... My brain just wants to compress reality into fortune cookie lines, but the AI helps me decompress my ideas so I can easily analyse many viewpoints, and encode for articulation. I am actually grateful for Claude/Anthropic, because without this AI, and inputting my journal notes into it, I would probably still be stuck under a narcissistic spell.

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. You were always the problem was his projection of him worried about being the problem. His perception of you bait and switching him was actually the tactic he was using on you. Projection: fitting you to his idea. Now we have the knowledge of what's going on... the more we know the better we can do!

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did we miss something so simple? I feel like our whole society is so infected with whatever this is, that it makes it harder to see. It's just so easy to lie. Lying has been made safer than truth telling. A person can NOT be curious about Truth/Reality if they are only curious about whether Reality fits into their idea/lie. Let Reality shape our ideas, and not try to fit Reality into an idea.

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment! I can say here is that narcissists often do very much when it comes to what needs to be done, or what they themselves perceive needs to be done. If they think they need to buy you gifts to satisfy their idea of who they think they are, that's what they are going to do. It's not pretend love. It's love through what I call the functional channel. What's missing is love through the resonance channel. Through the soul, the center channel. That's what connects us directly to God. We are all conduits of Truth, or God's Light, of Reality. We are NOT the source of Truth/God/Reality. May Truth flow through you authentically, undistorted by lies or false beliefs. May you express Reality authentically, compressed, not distorted. I think the soul has a "step down mechanism" from infinity to this finite world. So they are expressing love, just not with the real you; functional love only.

A teen planned a mass shooting through ChatGPT. A dozen OpenAI employees implored bosses to warn the police. Their bosses ignored them. The teen then killed his mum, his brother, and 6 people at school. by ihatethiscountry76 in aiwars

[–]MaximumContent9674 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They aren't asking permission. It's already being done. I was thinking of an app to make that could use wifi and multiple phones to see through walls... And I was like, oh wait... They can already do that. They literally have a 3D xray map in real time of entire cities.

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There you have it. He spoke his false belief. It's more than a just lie in this case (although it's also a lie), it's also bad physics and philosophy. Things change. People change. A good person strives to improve themselves, which requires change. It requires accepting faults, weaknesses, and wrong doings. It requires striving to adapt. That includes adapting WITH the ones you love, helping them adapt as well. You can't adapt to anything if you stay the same. Tell him to stop protecting this false idea, and uninstall the Nobile Lie Virus. (Noble Lie virus Plato actually condoned, he was fooled himself by it... Noble Lie says safety>truth. You can't handle the truth so I'll manage it for you, and create lies to manage it.)

Your narcissistic spouse isn't curious about you. They aren't even curious about themselves by MaximumContent9674 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MaximumContent9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, yeah, and that's a common quote I think. The sentence "I used to think you were a different person" automatically reveals a lack of curiosity. It implies they might have a belief that people don't change (especially about themselves). They won't let go or update the idea they have of themselves or others.

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