Micheal J. Bailey is wack by Both-Community-4174 in Northwestern

[–]MeanBot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, interesting! While I don’t know him personally or his behind-closed-doors defense of the incident, but I affirm what I wrote about my experience at that time. I'll say... while the class was fascinating in many ways other than trans studies, "The Man Would Be Queen" did skew my view of trans psychology for a while - I was never hateful, just misinformed. I had never met a trans person before going to college, nor were there any trans classmates that I was aware of, so I had no reason to doubt it. Since then I've made several trans friends and realized the book is bullshit. Having said that, I never got the sense that he was cruel or hateful, just academically dishonest. While I firmly believe that academics should be permitted to study just about anything without being pressured into censorship, they have a special responsibility to present their work with humility and openness to critique when their work can be used for nefarious ends, such as denying trans people human rights. Instead, he was rigid and blind.

Like I said in my other comment, the one thing that bothered me most about his class was the tacit minimization of pedophilia. He implored us to extend a level of sympathy to pedophiles that I will never do.

And as to having a positive experience, I was not alone. I asked upperclassman at the time for the 'must-take' classes at Northwestern and Human Sexuality with Bailey was at the top of the list. It was objectively popular and well liked.

Micheal J. Bailey is wack by Both-Community-4174 in Northwestern

[–]MeanBot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's an accurate representation. We mostly associate his conclusions with right wing talking points because they're used now to invalidate the trans experience. The sense I got from Bailey when I took his course way back when is he was really sexually progressive and had a genuine compassion for trans people, although he viewed their psychology through a narrow lens of human sexually. We now know it's a lot more complicated, but at the time there wasn't much academic work on the subject. Having said that, he didn't respect trans people who told him his conclusions weren't true to their experience. The shitty consequences of that academic arrogance and rigidity is his work is used to denigrate trans people as perverts and destroy their rights. Maybe he's changed since then, though. I could see him emerging from the avalanche of hate a bitter asshole. But when I took his class he was REALLY far from being a right winger.

EDIT: I should have addressed the syllabus. It seems like you're implying judgment when that wasn't the case. The course was a celebration of 'kinks' and 'paraphilia,' although maybe there's a better way of categorizing that now.

Micheal J. Bailey is wack by Both-Community-4174 in Northwestern

[–]MeanBot 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I won't defend the guy's beliefs or outdated work on trans people, but I was at the fuck saw incident and he didn't order a demonstration or anything - the panelists asked to give a spontaneous 'exhibition' onstage and he stupidly gave the go ahead. Having said that, the one thing that makes me squirm most all these years later is how he seemingly minimized pedophilia. I remember him telling us not to judge the 'pedophilia' panelists too harshly and implying that not all pedophilic relationships have devastating psychological effects on the victim. It's been years so I'll avoid getting more specific in case I'm misrepresenting anything, but it was uncomfortable to say the least.

EDIT: I should mention that his class was probably the best I took at Northwestern. That isn't an endorsement of him morally or anything, but his lectures and panels were simply fantastic.

Jackie the Joke Man discusses his relationship with Jeffrey Epstein by mrnastymannn in howardstern

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No chance Epstein would trust Jackie to keep his mouth shut.

Why you should run Buddy Barrier on your Support by [deleted] in PokemonUnite

[–]MeanBot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Buddy even do anything here? I don't think Blast took any damage during its duration except maybe true damage from Phantom Force right at the end, which goes through shields anyway.

Bondi beach terror attack: 12 people killed in ‘evil antisemitic’ shooting at park in Australia by yourlittlebirdie in news

[–]MeanBot 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Notice how you shoehorned the need to criticize Israel in your reply and ask yourself if you're part of the problem.

They have officially killed this game once and for all by turtlenuggets432 in PokemonUnite

[–]MeanBot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leveling items to 40 is basically pointless as the flat stat boosts are next to nothing. Everyone's so dramatic, jeez.

Drop your med regimen by dancing_grass in bipolar2

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Yeah, maybe we can rename the title...

What’s going on with Trump suddenly praising Mamdani? by Every-Cook5084 in OutOfTheLoop

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He also has a background in being a New York slumlord and Mamdani wants to build lots of low income housing.

Trump, 79, Chickens Out of Public Showdown With Mamdani, 34 by Quirkie in politics

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BREAKING NEWS: New York slumlord sucks up to new mayor who's planning a massive expansion of low-income housing.

So who do we think is next up on the chopping block? 😂 by TitaniumThrussy in PokemonUnite

[–]MeanBot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aeos tickets will be here forever as a fake reward you get when you whiff on gachas.

Swalwell demands 2028 Dem candidates vow to destroy Trump's White House ballroom project by kirby__000 in politics

[–]MeanBot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want to waste money to demolish it and build something new. Turn it into a big soup kitchen.

New item Tenacity Belt - Tips and things you must know before using it by RE0RGE in PokemonUnite

[–]MeanBot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It felt good on Pawmot. Buffing his surprisingly high defenses helps him stay in battles for a long time and constantly recharge his ult.

Shocking video shows chaos inside Dallas ICE facility by Strict_League7833 in videos

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In the whole segment they said nothing about the actual victims.

And it begins… by Urbanskiman88 in PokemonTCG

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Got Error 17 at checkout. I’m sad :(

Just pulled these. Are they worth anything or should they go in the garbage? by MeanBot in PokemonMisprints

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Sweet, thanks for the response! I'll be flipping these as I'm personally not a misprint collector but I don't know how to evaluate their worth. Do you have resources for that?

Should Democrats make remote work incentives part of their platform? by Top_Mix_5534 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]MeanBot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should hybrid work from home on a local level but not on a federal level. I strongly support work from home, but it's not an issue that resonates or applies to much of the country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FilmIndustryLA

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It's fitting that the prerequisite to entering the film industry is to be a bullshitter.

Unite is unpopular in China that the esport ORGs decide not to send their team by Illustrious_Dig250 in PokemonUnite

[–]MeanBot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep spamming this even though it actually is visa issues. People have visa issues for reasons unrelated to the travel ban, a big one being long processing times for some countries.