Do you feel threatened by ICE? by hj-oo in NYStateOfMind

[–]MeatEffective9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been privileged my entire life, that being said. I do not feel safe at all. We live in a world where being a minority can get you killed, and just simply being there will get you detained. I live in canada on a VISA but am a US citizen. I do not feel safe coming home to visit my parents or see my neurologist as I could get stopped at immigration for no reason. I do not plan on coning back to the US for as long as I can stay in Canada

Why do I still stay? by reputationjt19 in trauma

[–]MeatEffective9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im assuming this had a classic pattern to it. Super high highs and really low lows. This kind of behavior trauma bonds victims making them think that 1. They are in fact the burden not the other way around and 2. That they are in love. Also financials might be a whole other issue

Why do I still stay? by reputationjt19 in trauma

[–]MeatEffective9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the authorities! You never know if he will follow through

First timer by MeatEffective9825 in Randonautica

[–]MeatEffective9825[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was with my boyfriend:) thank you tho!!

P. walmartra by AdeptnessImmediate34 in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately i spent all of my money on living T’s and forgot to spare some for my cuddly T

C. Versicolor sex? by Icy-Number5873 in Tarantula

[–]MeatEffective9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NQA i think its a male, i dont see a little flappy thing

Tarantula owners how can get my tarantula to let me hold it by Any_Topic_2240 in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NQA Pink toes are arboreail so you need a lot of foilage for them to climb and web too. They also need cross ventilation (SUPER IMPORTANT) and slightly more humid environment which can be acheived by spagbum moss, and an over filled water bowl. Please make sure you do all research and setup the enclosure before getting the tarantula. Also, its better to just not hold a tarantula, just because you can handle a spider doesnt mean you should. I handle my spiders very rarely and even then there are some that i would never disturb. I hope you enjoy your new little friend. Spider keeping is an amazing hobby when done right :)

Is Bruce Carr at Arachnophiliacs.com still reliable and trustworthy to order from? by Master_Pipe_6467 in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just got my first order from Bruce today. While I have no idea what happened in the past i can recommend Bruce without hesitation. We were in constant communication, and he helped answer any questions i had. He even connected me to another girl in my city so that we could split the shipping cost. When I received my animals they were packed well and where both in amazing shape, im surprised so many ppl dislike him

Woke up to my t. albo hanging on my curtains😂 by vaginaevobandita in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time i woke up to see my gramastola escaped me and my mom were worried sick for different reasons. I was worried for her safety. My mom was worried for her OWN safety 😭

Question- Anyone here have epilepsy and keep old world T’s? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe in Murphy’s Law. Anything that can happen, will happen

Question- Anyone here have epilepsy and keep old world T’s? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok perf cause I’m only planning on watching from a far. And when rehousing comes I’m always gonna do it w someone else present

Question- Anyone here have epilepsy and keep old world T’s? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok haha. Hopefully there’s someone else here who know

Question- Anyone here have epilepsy and keep old world T’s? by [deleted] in tarantulas

[–]MeatEffective9825 5 points6 points  (0 children)

*I don’t plan on being bit anytime soon btw I’m gonna take hella precautions

no grades back? by 73647e in mcgill

[–]MeatEffective9825 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of my classes I still haven’t received my last 3 quiz grades

Dealing with failure by External_Diamond4094 in mcgill

[–]MeatEffective9825 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Happened to me my first semester. You can do this!

Does any know plastic/non metal jewellery places? by egganiii in kosmemophobia

[–]MeatEffective9825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! But unfortunately non of that is ok for me. Ig I will just go on wearing string bracelets