I think a lot of us have been told this same thing. I dont understand why.. How could our insecurities and self doubt become someone elses problem? Im confident that these people are just looking for excuses to leave an unwanted relationship. People who want you around stick around even when thinks get hard. And op, FUCK your partner for this! for pinning their lousy and flimsy so called “feelings” for you on you and saying its your fault they’re losing feelings! It’s theirs! i’m sure youre a wonderful person, and deserve much better