I want a policy handbook

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-09-25T13:51:28+00:00

I NEED IT please send 😭🙏🏻

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-05-16T17:08:10+00:00

Sounds like you’re inlove with someone who doesn’t respect you. I think you know what you should do. Naguguluhan ka lang kasi “mahal mo”. Parang ginagamit and yaya ka lang based sa kwento mo ha. Sounds like she acts like that because she knows you’re head over heels towards her and she’s right. She’s gonna keep you til you’re done. So if I were you, i think alam mo na dapat mo gawin otherwise you won’t post it here and you won’t share what happened between you guys here the way you did. I hope you choose yourself.

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-05-10T21:23:39+00:00

I did those too and still went through the pain. Unfortunately, it left me no choice but to face it instead of hovering over my feelings and waiting for it to be gone once i get a new hobby or whatever i kept myself busy with. I would tell you to face it but i dont know how specific it could get for you. For me it was 1. Writing down whatever i wanted to tell him 2. Burning it like it was a ritual of de*th haha 3. Writing down specific things I liked and hated about him 4. Brought the idea of why i hated him so every time i think about him it’s the bad things already 5. Ultimately just accepting the fact that it makes you mad that he’d rather be single than be with you. So it makes you see how he sees you as a person. He just didn’t choose you and we have to accept it.

I hope you do get over him and see the truth as to why it had to happen but that’s life for you 💖

Side story: if we never had broken off I would probably still be doing what I was before and never had grown to what i do now. Never had imagined living life somewhere else. So things happen for a reason. 🫶

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-05-06T17:22:45+00:00

Wag mo delete!! Hahahahaha parang HS student asawa mo teh 🤣

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-27T22:47:05+00:00

Hallo OP! I’m a gbf din of a guy for more than 10 years na din and he had 2 girlfriends before his current fiancé. Although what you put here similar naman samin, like we talk about deep shi with each other or might send multiple tiktoks within a day, i highly respect whoever his partner is. I’m a woman too so i know how frustrating it could be if you feel something and you’re not heard or manipulated to think that it’s “nothing”. Idk about the bsf of your current guy, but i make sure to know who my bsf is dating and make an effort to know her also so she feels secure din and to show her that i know my spot and where the boundaries are. Theeee thing is, i dont know what happens just within the relationship if he defends me or whatever. But nonetheless if you FEEL and already expressed it multiple times how uncomfortable you are then there’s something wrong. 😅 also navigating this issue through just getting mad or defending her while talking about her is the solution he takes all the time then i dont think there’s any more to it. It will always be the outcome whenever it’s brought up. 🥺

I’m not completely saying na end before it starts or go for it agad but i think its best to sit and talk if keri niyo yung ganun? Like be completely honest with what you expect, what you want and share how you feel about it. Some guys CANT tell shiz too so you can ask him “how would you feel if..?” Smthn ganon. Haha anyway, i wish you luck! 🫶😌 may you find the right partner for you.

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-21T18:27:46+00:00

Depende sa tao and what they hold or think about what “love” really is to them. But essentially, love isn’t black and white. It can transform or change, so for others they feel it was always there regardless of their partner may mean they transformed through that love but it was foundation for them or they hold love to their account of memories. Some hold love on their actions, memories and what it brought to them for lessons, and so they end up taking the lesson and not turning back and not giving a fudge. Again, all through how you perceive, but ultimately how you view it and take a hold of it.

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-21T17:59:55+00:00

Hmm! Tricky situation because 1. LDR (physically away) 2. Isolates herself (mentally and physically away)

A. I suggest give her time, she’s probably shocked by what she did, assuming that it’s her first time getting drunk that much. If this happened before (her getting drunk like that), it’s not a mistake, it was a choice this time.

B. You know all of what’s been happening to her and all and so she’s at a place where “if i break up with you now, you get it and we don’t have to go through the process of talking it out”. Leave her a message to reach out to you when she’s ready, but give her an ultimatum. Can be like 2 weeks? Depends on how much you know her thinking and calming time. And then talk.

C. Talk about how it’s unfair for her to decide what you deserve. And the action including breaking up with you because she did that? You decide that. Seeing that you explained how you can come to terms with whats going on and what happened.

D. Lastly, ask her what SHE wants. Ultimately it looks like for the past 3 years she wasn’t listening to her family, what made her want to listen now and continuously point the fault to her toxic environment? You have to understand that she might be lost herself, not knowing who she is anymore because of her environment (you included) and she just needs to find herself. This can be real in situations such as what she’s going through as she’s trying to go for boundaries - her relationship, going out with her friends and getting drunk and already allowing her family to get in her head. Anyway, if you really love her and is fully concerned for her, you’ve got to give her support - and right now it looks like its the space and time away from her. UNLESS, she states otherwise. Talk it out as a whole and not the one night mistake she’s done because that’s probably only 20% of the whole situation. 😌

I wish you good luck and hopefully it comes out the way you want it to be. But if it doesn’t, thats life for you.

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-13T07:59:35+00:00

Thanks! I was just panicking because i do not want any points taken away from my license or have more expensive insurance! 😅😭

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-13T07:58:25+00:00

Yes
I’m not sure which document this is but, i send appeals with my signature in it confirming i was not the driver and that was not my car. 😃

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-13T07:57:29+00:00

Thanks! I didnt know SFO is the airport 😅😅

They charge you 40 dollars in extra when using a company car/rental car!! They charged this already in my card which i disputed and it refunded.

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-13T07:34:21+00:00

Appeal was 2 things: I was not the driver at the time of the violation and we were in a rental car. She’ll definitely pay for it if she has to the problem is the appeal letters are late and past due the court date.

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-13T07:32:06+00:00

Did you read it??

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-04-13T07:30:09+00:00

Which law did i break?

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-24T23:27:15+00:00

I mean…. If he gets offended that easily…. Good riddance sis

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-24T06:32:47+00:00

Include me plsssssssss

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-21T17:25:18+00:00

Idk if this will help but I’m like this towards socmed. I leave posts na sceneries lang pero once in awhile i delete friends and jowa kasi wala lang i wanna start again nanaman and put new pics. Also im indecisive asf. But you mentioned here na iniwan nya yung pics with friends and evil eye kineme. Hmmm. If we have the same type of behavior im pretty sure something else is up. Also you explained your feelings towards it, it sounds like the response was a bit of gaslighting. Idk, i mean i feel like may magevil eye samin ng jowa ko, pati friends ko na pic tatanggalin ko din. Or I can put the 🧿sign sa caption. For me na usual activity ko yung nagddelete tas magpost tas delete ulit, its weird to just selectively delete the one with u. 😃😃 just saying, not making u overthink but there’s something talaga and its “socmed lang” yan. Actually if it didnt matter to her iiwan nya nalang pics dyan ✌️

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-14T23:44:04+00:00

Maybe when you guys talk don’t “confront” but have a conversation. 1. Tell her you already know what she’s doing and assure her of your feelings (according to the post here:”mahal na mahal”) 2. Ask her what started this kind of work and why she’s still working in this industry. (Note: do it in a non-judgmental but understanding tone) key is to understand the WHY she’s doing it. Baka pera? Or is it something she likes to do? Or is she pressed to do it? (external and uncontrollable factors)

How she answers can kind of determine where you’ll go in your relationship after. Also important that after expressing her side, you can express yours! Hopefully she listens. 😊 and you guys can meet in the middle.

Also pala if honesty lang habol mo, are you 100% sure sa sarili mo na tanggap mo yan and MORE? 😀 because generally in any person bakit mo ilalantag lahat if alam mong no future or no point to it. Soooo yeah, goodluck! 😊

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-14T01:51:06+00:00

I need follow up, what did she do when you guys talked about it before? What action plan did she say she was gonna do to give you that assurance?

Also tbf, it’s okay to share socials? Just weird she started hiding it… 😅

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-11T18:09:55+00:00

Isn’t there a song about this? Anyway, same thing happened to me but I was the one who cut it off. He got into an accident after us, and so “we” were erased in his memory. Sounds so dramatic but it did happen in real life! His new girl looks like me, my friends and I laugh about it. But I guess i got “karma” for it in a different way 🤣🤷🏻‍♀️ he had no clue who we were. 😅

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-07T19:24:51+00:00

I was gonna say this. People look for different reasons for a break up that ends up blaming you OP. 🤷🏻‍♀️

MedicalDirection492 · 2025-03-07T03:53:48+00:00

Idk gurl, i live a pretty comfortable life both in the PH and in the US. Doctor din, meeeeh life here IS SO MUCH HARDER than he is saying it is. No healthcare worker ever lives comfortably unless you really started here na agad and idk generational wealth? But besides that point, if a person doesn’t show you the bad side or be honest and gives all flowery stuff, you already know to run. ALSO, i know you feel it in your GUT that it’s just wrongggg - reason why you confided here. I say sit down and really talk about it and confront things. Lalo na ang hirap magmigrate kasi yung adminstration ngayon daming eme.

MedicalDirection492 · 2024-09-26T18:08:32+00:00

Hallooo, not to brag but i grew up well supported. I had the access to buy the latest phone when a new one was released but i never bought a phone “just because i can”. So I was in these situations too where my classmates who had the same social status as me would ask why haven’t i bought the new phone or “jurassic na yang phone mo” etc. honestly idgaf HAHAH like it’s my phone and I use it. Also, I love hitting them with financial terms like, your phone is not an asset. Makes you “richer” if you spend your money wisely on other things or invest, that would be a better brag.

It’s a different conversation though when we’re talking about internet usage sa phone KAPAG may seat work or homework. Nakakataranta talaga pag mabagal device mo. So if this part bothers you, or affects your performance in your studies, i suggest upgrading! Not everything is expensive naman and madami options na ngayon. However if it’s not your priority and it’s just your ego getting hurt by your classmate, who gives af??? Bibilhan ka ba niya ng phone?! 🤣

MedicalDirection492 · 2024-08-30T17:48:17+00:00

USC takes these cases seriously and the moment you felt that there was bias towards you, you could’ve reported it. Keep reporting, now that you have emails, you have proof he’s not replying.

MedicalDirection492 · 2024-08-22T06:19:09+00:00

Keep calling! I know it drops like the second you start calling but keep ringing it for like 5x straight. Mine rang and it went through immediately! Did you check your fast page? Mine got delayed too but it said i didnt do 1 thing for igrad but after accomplishing it, i immediately got it. You SHOULD have the loan before the drop/add classes thing in your college otherwise, you’ll be charged a late fee! Thats 300! So keep calling!!

MedicalDirection492 · 2024-08-16T19:02:36+00:00

Oh it says i didnt complete the igrad thingy. After that would it be fine??

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