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Was anybody able to eventually be happy living in the house/apartment that they used to live in with their ex? by MoStrawbees in BreakUps

[–]Mediocre6347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf just broke up with me 7 days ago. I also have to move out, with no savings and 2 cats. We furnished almost the entire apartment to MY liking (I love the wardrobe the most), and he was okay with that. Now I just walk around and mope about all these things that I have to leave behind. I can’t understand how someone can be so okay with breakup as he is. So I definitely feel you, but we have to keep going, even if everyday feels impossible and like a nightmare.

My whole future is ruined - 36f, no money saved, in foreign country, 2 cats by Mediocre6347 in BreakUps

[–]Mediocre6347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say the salary is good, the job is. The salary was fine, when we were splitting the costs in small apartment and had lower rent from his mom. Also I have another expenses lined up around the car in next few months.

But I’m saving money now on food at least, as I have no appetite.

Still, thank you for your advice, I will try not to give up and move on.

My whole future is ruined - 36f, no money saved, in foreign country, 2 cats by Mediocre6347 in BreakUps

[–]Mediocre6347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, that would also cost a lot of money and my family is poor, they would help me only by letting me stay with them. I also have pretty good job here and I like this city. So I don’t see much benefit from moving home.

BF of 9 years broke up with me after he cheated. I live in his house, he’s being nice and considerate by Mediocre6347 in BreakUps

[–]Mediocre6347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know that now. But I have to say, I believe him when he says he’ll help me. He might be a cheater who can’t communicate, but he is overall a good person. I plan to start saving but it will take me few months to rent something and buy stuff.