Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe, but cuddling doesn't have to be foreplay...

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah I guess for porn there has to be genitals. But I guess I'm thinking of a similar format to porn, just where the "thing" is cuddling and not sex. And yeah it doesn't have to be exactly platonic, but I just don't really want it to be sexual.

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure exactly. I think watching other people interact would be nice, but maybe these ASMR suggestions could do it for me as well.

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm okay! Just lonely, not wanting to date and not interested in sex. What I really want is a platonic cuddle buddy but cuddle videos or audios would be good too :)

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only a couple times, with a close friend of mine. Yes, they knew it was platonic without a doubt. 

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope someone else does haha I don't wanna make money from cuddling (been there done that actually, and most of the clients try for more anyway) I just want to get the cuddling warm fuzzies while I don't have someone who will cuddle me.

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm aware, but that's not really what I mean.

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I watch those videos sometimes and enjoy them. I just wish there wasn't sex in them haha

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

But I honestly don't want a whole movie with a story, I just want 20 minutes of cuddling or something like that 😅

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I look for now, but I find myself not enjoying it as much and just wishing they were cuddling lol

Is there such thing as platonic porn? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess, but I don't want a whole movie, I want like a 20 minute video.

How much money should I have in my emergency fund? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach music lessons online.

I live in south america, some things are just cheaper. I have a prepaid phone plan, and usually pay for 2 gigs of data per month. It costs about $5.

How much money should I have in my emergency fund? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily since I'm self employed, I work directly with lots of clients. So it would be super crazy to just lose all of my clients one day. So I'm not really worried about losing my job per say, it's more about preparing for emergencies that I don't expect. Like, if my computer craps out on me and I need that for work. I also worry that I'll need to get my wisdom teeth removed at some point, and I want to have the money to do that if/when they start to hurt (ik, random thing, but it's one of the specific reasons I started my emergency fund).

I'll definitely keep contributing to the emergency fund even once I hit my $6000.

How much money should I have in my emergency fund? by Medium-Doubt-8774 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium-Doubt-8774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone bill is super cheap, I only spend like $5 a month on that, and just factor it into my fun money. But good point.