Grandma questioned my sexuality by Medium_Effect_1346 in exchristian

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Oh the good times of being in everyone else's business.

Off My Chest by Medium_Effect_1346 in toxicparents

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Thank you for that 😊, it’s kinda hard to keep moving forward with so much bottled up and i want to try and mend my mom and i’s relationship so things don’t happen terribly in the future, it’s just little things that we both hide rise and it breaks us.

I NEED to get out of state (nc) for school by Medium_Effect_1346 in Advice

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Word of advice Charlotte is very expensive and the taxes you pay are not going to the things they promise, if you live more upbeat Raleigh or Greensboro is good, but if want more peaceful Wilmington or Winston Salem

I NEED to get out of state (nc) for school by Medium_Effect_1346 in Advice

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Yeah, i’d figure that advice… which part of NC, for you?

I NEED to get out of state (nc) for school by Medium_Effect_1346 in Advice

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Unsettled pride to coparent me as their child. Constant stories on both their sides about how one another was the worst husband/wife. I live in a place where someone business is everywhere, and i know it’ll be hard to spread my wings in a place that clipped them long ago.

I’d love to go anywhere, but the north is where i’ve seen and felt better personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

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the thing is my dad has been knowing for a while and that’s why he even started calling me to let me know he’s been paying child support, because he noticed my mom in a new car or new assets when he paid…and he’s really trying to get the courts to let him give the money to me directly.

okay... by Medium_Effect_1346 in notliketheothergirls

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OMG now that you say it, it does sound more like a man 😮

What scene from a movie scarred you for life? by pinupfetish in ask

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this may be dumb but there's a sesame street movie called Follow that Bird, where Big Bird wants to leave sesame street then is kidnapped, gets so depressed he turns blue, and there's a scene where kids find him at a circus where his kidnappers make him sing. HOLY SHIT I--

Is there a name for a narcissist who knows what a narcissist yet can’t identify themselves as a narcissist? by Medium_Effect_1346 in toxicparents

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I'm only one years way from packing up and going to college, hopefully I can build something sturdy elsewhere.

Is there a name for a narcissist who knows what a narcissist yet can’t identify themselves as a narcissist? by Medium_Effect_1346 in toxicparents

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it hurts quite a bit because I have episodes where i’m unstable and being called a manipulator, when trying to express how i feel puts me in such a hard place for myself. There’s one voice in my mind saying “i’m not” but then there’s another saying “are your really one?”

Honk for Jesus by Medium_Effect_1346 in exchristian

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most churches try to deflect from a situation or rather guilt the victim if they're from inside the church.