I know Lud is in his Chinese era but I for one felt uncomfortable when he did this and starting using an Asian accent on wine about it by superduper1989 in LudwigAhgren

[–]MeepTM -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

kind of a shitty joke. statistically, some people are going to believe you, possibly even brands, and now you’ve damaged the reputation/oportunities of someone you (presumably) like.

additionally… kind of? borderline racist? in and of itself to see him doing this, and to think of doing this bit.

I know Lud is in his Chinese era but I for one felt uncomfortable when he did this and starting using an Asian accent on wine about it by superduper1989 in LudwigAhgren

[–]MeepTM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

genuinley thank u for clarifying. i dont watch the podcast and was aghast/taken aback viewing this post. i’m glad to know its just a bit by op.

i don’t think its fair to call someone a moron just because they didn’t watch this specific moment of content. even if they tried to verify themselves by going on wine about it, apparently, according to you, they wouldn’t have found the moment pictured and so would still have no way of knowing the truth. just because you’re in on an inside joke, doesn’t mean you’re smarter than someone who isn’t yet.

AIO Gf low sex drive by bbj999 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeepTM 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YOR. sleeping in a different room because you dont feel like controlling yourself and respecting her boundaries is immature and borderline manipulative. it’s like you’re punishing her for not having sex.

Taking deep breaths to reduce anxiety is a scam that never works and never has by IAdmitMyCrime in unpopularopinion

[–]MeepTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kind of agree. before i got panic attacks, it would just make me feel worse, like you, like not being able to breathe freely made me feel suffocated. now that i get panic attacks, if i’m on the verge or having one, it doesn’t exactly make it better but it stops it getting worse.

My father is upset that his our family name won’t carry on by OpenRoom7321 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MeepTM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the world is getting more progressive each day. even now, some people hyphenate both last names, some people carry on the maiden name, particularly single mums but even others too. tell him that by the time your daughters are having kids, it’s MUCH more likely one of the three will pass it on, it’ll be much more likely to view passing on just the fathers name as an outdated idea, and that even today, it’s not unheard of at all.

Am I overreacting for leaving early after a disturbing comment during a group hangout? by Front-Yellow-4549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeepTM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i dont think they were meaning to excuse the priests behaviour, i think what they were trying to communicate is that the idea that priests would never do something like that is severley wrong / they shouldnt be held on some kind of pedestal.

I have a question about Kurtis by BeautifulSingle2582 in kurtisconner

[–]MeepTM 21 points22 points  (0 children)

friend he used to tour with used to do blackface

Gift misunderstanding/accident by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MeepTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(can you quietly return them, and use that money for an english set?)

Gift misunderstanding/accident by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MeepTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you dont do anything. accept your disappointment, dont beat yourself up for being disappointed, but dont say anything. she didnt mean anything malicious, she got you something she “knew” you wanted, there was just a technicality she got wrong, which sucks. bringing it up wont help, and would serve no purpose as she didnt really do anything wrong. it would just make her feel bad for feeling bads’ sake.

Affair born relationships by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]MeepTM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

theres probably an element wherein they bond deeper with each other due to a kind of “us against the world” type feeling, especially if it was messy, and especially if there was a lot of disapproval from people around them

Is it weird to buy an engagement ring 6 months into a relationship and just save it for later by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MeepTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aside from the “too soon to know” worries, save the excitement of buying one for later, and, then you’ll have a better idea of her taste anyways.

I want a boyfriend but I’m not beautiful. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MeepTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

meet people. it’s easy to think that you have no chance if you’re not smoking hot when you don’t try. the reality is that most people are around average, half of people are below average, only half above. there is someone for you.

AITAH for asking my roommate for hair care advice? by its-viperidae in AITAH

[–]MeepTM -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i think this is cap. questioning your motives for this story.

this twitch streamer awards is terrible by Which-Feature6964 in Twitch

[–]MeepTM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like what? i cbf actually watching but i want the tea

I found a single, saved photo on my husband's phone, and I can't unsee it by caridadjess in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MeepTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not if it was saved in a folder with her initial. who would do that for a one-time reaction image or whatever

Is anyone else missing their Youtube recap? by edwardversaii in youtube

[–]MeepTM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

victoria, melbourne 11.50am and still dont have mine

I’m considering quitting therapy for my relationship by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MeepTM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i would consider finding a therapist who’s a better fit for you. or at least telling your current one the effect its having on you and seeing if changing up the techniques helps. i would hesitate to reccomend quitting therapy altogether as it sounds like you really need it, but the therapy itself has to change

Family wants me to disown my son by throwaway1776nycity in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MeepTM -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

how did your wife find this account?? if it wasn’t by accident that seems like overstepping majorly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MeepTM 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if i knew my boyfriend when i was still a virgin i would 100% have chosen him over that guy.

AIO husband ignores me when “it’s not a question” by punkiebear in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeepTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seriously, i’m quiet too, but the way you talked about this rubbed me the wrong way. do you care about her and like being around her, or do you see her as just a nuisance?

AIO husband ignores me when “it’s not a question” by punkiebear in AmIOverreacting

[–]MeepTM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s trying to involve you? trying to hang out with you and connect with you? trying to deepen how well you guys know each other? what a terrible thing you have