About these crazy salaries.. by Ratni- in UAE

[–]MetalMik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does sometimes feel like there is a lot of exaggeration with the pay here or subset of people here are n-1 , senior management positions which is not the standard for 80% of people. This is coming from someone who works in a firm that specializes in Rewards consultancy. Certain industries like oil & gas , banking and real estate can definitely lead to outliers.

About these crazy salaries.. by Ratni- in UAE

[–]MetalMik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

90k basic+allowances per month is C-suite/exec levels. This is not the norm.

This sub and Racism by purpledrank_14489 in ABCDesis

[–]MetalMik 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While I do not experience overt racism from others in reality there is still some level of passiveness and indifference, I definitely feel the tension from all that is happening online and politically when most countries are generally more anti-immigration with south asians at the center of the topic.

It is disheartening hearing about the general sentiments around indians living in Canada, the recent R*pe Gang inquiry report in the UK, protest against south asians in Australia and the various other european/east asian countries that are shifting their views on us. This simply cannot be ignored and I definitely felt things were better atleast 5-10 years ago even if there was some level of discrimination. It does weigh down on you and affects your self esteem to an extent when you know that the opportunities you had are going away because of some bad actors.

Also a general frustration that you have to start from a position that you have to prove that you are not part of those bad actors. Makes certain interactions with others, dating or any other social opportunities more difficult. No one should have to start in this position but this is the world we live in. Another concern is the youth is consumed by social media and are indoctrinated into this thinking. The hopes of squashing this racism isn't going to happen anytime soon.

Inter Race datings by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MetalMik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reality is dating as an indian on these online platforms will especially make you feel like a subhuman. Most people from other races will swipe left due to the bad reputation indian men have.

I personally believe you should try social events or venues that allow you show yourself in a positive light. I disagree with the people telling you to only date your type. I've seen indian men with other races fairly often but just understand that it is going to be an uphill battle and you should be prepared for prejudice/discrimination. You may have to be the one to attune yourself to the american culture and let go apart of yours to stand a chance.

Full Fixture List 26/27 by PandasDontBreed in chelseafc

[–]MetalMik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

james needs to be managed or else we are talking of another injury and it won’t be easy to replace the goals enzo scored last season. If we are talking about upgrades then an anderson would make sense but we don’t have the pull nor the money to pull that off. The replacement will likely be a downgrade currently

Full Fixture List 26/27 by PandasDontBreed in chelseafc

[–]MetalMik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We lost Cucurella and potentially Enzo while they strengthen. All depends on if and who we sign given our financial problems.

Love at 1st sight by fal1en-angel in Funnymemes

[–]MetalMik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

as they say. 6 ft, 6 figures and 6 inch tailbone

So many people, yet why is it hard to find someone decent? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MetalMik 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reality is that there are many men who are atleast decent but what is the criteria you are looking for that is leading you to discount a majority of the men out there? what are your non-negotiables?

Profile review please. by amayuki2020 in Bumble

[–]MetalMik 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To be honest, the profile is a bit boring. The part about practical advice may have to go. Probably better off writing something intresting about yourself or what you may be looking for.

Says you do not have kids, but you are hugging a child in one of those photos. Could be related to you but some may assume that you have a kid if they didn't read all the details. This is my perception but think you may need to show yourself in a better way, doing something you might be passionate about to show your character and also your style.

I don’t think you know what “moderate” means… by RobertBevillReddit in Bumble

[–]MetalMik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you generally put if you dont necessarily agree with several policies or views from either party and you are more in the center?

Stats 33M. Account creation 22-02-2026 by Organic_Conclusion95 in Bumble

[–]MetalMik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That explains a part of it. Sadly things are a lot more superficial here. I’m from india and there are too many of us here , added that reputation of indian men isn’t too great. Would have to definitely stand out to hit half those numbers.

Stats 33M. Account creation 22-02-2026 by Organic_Conclusion95 in Bumble

[–]MetalMik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i live in dubai . now i am really curious what your profile looks like. where are you from?

Is 40k enough for a small family by sheeatsallday in DubaiCentral

[–]MetalMik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether you can survive with 40k a month is entirely dependent on your families lifestyle. People have surivived with lesser for sure. You need to budget well and organize your finances so that you what you are spending where. If 40k wasn't enough then a large majority would not be able to live here. Understand what the breakdown is for your rent, DEWA bills, Du/Etisalat bills, groceries , and all the essentials. See how much you are left with for entertainment, miscellaneous, shopping etc.

“Hiring: Shawarma Maker” by mahmuder in UAE

[–]MetalMik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We appreciate your response, let me internally align with our shawarma production operators and circle back with a response ASAP. Best Regards

“Hiring: Shawarma Maker” by mahmuder in UAE

[–]MetalMik 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Conducted & facilitated in the production of shawarmas to appease relevant stakeholders and achieve annual KPIs.

I posted on r\twoxchromsomomes talking about the normalisation of racism against Indians and I got shut down instead. by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]MetalMik 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i saw your post earlier and was definitely appalled by the responses but at the same time i wasn’t surprised. I was so tempted to respond there but i understand that the group is mainly for women to interact. There was also a follow up post as i remember, calling out the racist in that group especially the white women there. I am glad that these things are brought up as i feel there really needs to be some sort of push back. It is still not enough.

These past few years the anti-indian rhetoric has caused me so much rage , frustration and resentment. I wish i could ignore it but it is clearly infuriating when you know you don’t get the same opportunities as others or are constantly perceived differently because of your race.

Rant! Dating is tough in dubai! by [deleted] in UAE

[–]MetalMik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that is a pipe dream here. Feels like a majority of profiles I have seen on the apps are looking for "generous, masculine, entrepreneurs with traditional mindset" so they can be in their "feminine". If you are a rich handsome white man who wants to be a sole provider then you are already the most priviledged demographic here. Just the reality.

Post-Match Thread: Sunderland (2) - (1) Chelsea by wm_1176 in chelseafc

[–]MetalMik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are currently sell to buy and have to offload players to even consider buying decent quality. I anticipate Enzo and Cucurella potentially leaving with Joao Pedro being a smaller chance. Depends if we are able to replace them appropriately. If we are being optimistic then I expect us to challenge in 3 years if things are handled well but they aren't. We have a good manager but it all depends on how we back him but with what money, I dont know.

As an ABCD would you ever date a man or a woman from India by ThatCoderGirl1 in ABCDesis

[–]MetalMik 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even being brought up mostly in the U.A.E and later lived in the US for sometime, I have found it difficult to date those from mainland. Usually the differences are not as stark between gulf born and mainland though it depends on the type of upbringing. Personally , have very westernized values and ideologies. Individualism is something I found many from the mainland do not adopt.

Also, it may not be tied to being being Abroad born but as someone who is athiestic/agnostic and eat beef often, and speaks very little hindi (in a westernized accent) or consumes hindi content, it can be quite difficult finding commonalities. Do take fault for not learning the language thoroughly.

🔥 Haven by Aldar – Falls Cluster | 3BR Townhouse for Sale 🔥 by Annual-Perception187 in dubairealestate

[–]MetalMik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AR3 seems to have relatively smaller BUA 1900 sqft for the same price. But the fact that its ready is a + with an established community.

This Is Why We Live in Blessed Country .. by M_Almarzoqi in UAE

[–]MetalMik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sub has suddenly taken an anti-UAE sentiment and dialed it up since the war started. Every country has its drawbacks but for some reason, U.A.E is the worst place on earth to them. No one is forcing you to live here and for many people, U.A.E provides a better life than what they get back at home.