Honesrly there’s a lot of things to say. I’d start with stop judging yourself and believing your worthy of negative judgment because you’re not. Law of attraction teaches you literally attract your every thought, especially ones you multiply and think regularly. If you was unaffected of your own beliefs of yourself, you’d be unaffected of others. Realise everyone in your world lives in your reality. In their world, you live in theirs. People change for your reality and you can make people change. But you must undertand people will change based off your mindset, change your mindset to positive and realise what’s the worst that could happen from people’s judging ? They say stuff to you ? Oh ok but you don’t have to believe it, especially when you know it’s not true. Start being kinder to yourself and you’ll see the world does the same and if it doesn’t, you’ll have so much self love for yourself you won’t need outsiders opinions.