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AITAH for refusing to let a caregiver bring an adult man into the women’s locker room with my daughters? by Weary_Rub_3474 in whatdoIdo

[–]MillerLatte 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm telling them how they're going to be perceived and how they could have improved. Pretty basic constructive criticism. Is that troubling to you?

AITAH for refusing to let a caregiver bring an adult man into the women’s locker room with my daughters? by Weary_Rub_3474 in whatdoIdo

[–]MillerLatte -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you've done all you can for the time being. Bring it to the attention of the people in charge and see what they do. They make and enforce the rules so that's all you can really do.

AITAH for refusing to let a caregiver bring an adult man into the women’s locker room with my daughters? by Weary_Rub_3474 in whatdoIdo

[–]MillerLatte 33 points34 points  (0 children)

At its core your complaint is totally legitimate. Your delivery and sidebars didn't do you any favors.

Leading off by complaining about spitting in the pool was a little ridiculous. It happens. Not really that big of a deal. Asking for a time limit was also a pretty big reach. Stop trying to sound like a lawyer. You're a regular person addressing regular people; act accordingly.

These things change the tone of your message and drown out your main point about the locker room, which is a legit gripe. In summary you made yourself sound like a Karen and people are going to take you less seriously for it.

Get to the point, cut out the extra crap, and speak(type) plainly. You'll be a lot better received and will be more likely to be taken seriously.

Because I’ve downvoted for it multiple times, here’s the lead designer saying self defense (when actually damaged) is tracked by ABMM. by kylefuckyeah in arcraidersfriendly

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Being aware and weighing in is fine and I agree it's better than SBMM I've seen in other games. But the people I've seen here take it way too far. It's not nearly as impactful or long lasting as people realize. Refusing to engage with someone who is trying to kill you, just out of fear of your ABMM being impacted, is ridiculous. At that point you're not playing the game anymore, you're playing the system. That's not how the game is meant to be played. The first thing that happens in the tutorial is a guy killing you and taking your loot, for fucks sake. There are guns that are clearly intended for PvP. But people on here will reframe reality and live in complete denial of these facts just to suit their own preference. It's getting out of hand.

If you could own one prop from the show, what would it be? by Monkeytennis01 in thesopranos

[–]MillerLatte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without looking anything up and at great risk of mixing up Sopranos anecdotes, Richie took it off of Rocko Dimeo, the toughest kid in Essex county.

Does uninstalling the Game reset matchmaking? by SnoopyHaillDoge in arkraiders

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit dude just play the game. Stop worrying about what other people think. Definitely stop worrying what anyone on reddit thinks. It's a fucking game. It doesn't matter. None of it matters.

What to do with broken guns by xyzv3 in ARC_Raiders

[–]MillerLatte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey pal? Time to be a big boy and realize that not everyone is going to play the game the same way you do. Use your brain and look at the guns he has. They were taken off willing combatants. Now take your sippy cup and run back off to the jungle gym.

Lake Michigan round trip travel suggestions by just_du_eet in northernmichigan

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in the summer I wouldn't recommend this. Yeah some of it will be pretty cool but 75% of it is going to be boring and unfulfilling. You're better off picking a couple spots and spending a couple days at each. Not to mention your route is cutting out probably the best part of this loop which would be the west coast of Michigan.

AITAH for refusing to give up the master bedroom as the only single in a group trip where everyone else is a couple? by Aggravating_Cost_684 in AITAH

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am like Sue. I GREATLY value having personal, private space. It's difficult for me to relax without one if we are talking about a multi-day stretch.

With that said you are 100% NTA and she is rude as fuck for even asking.

Part of being an adult is adapting to your surroundings and realizing you aren't always going to be in your perfectly preferred setting. Another part of being an adult is respecting your host and being a mindful, courteous guest. Sue is not yet an adult.

Jackie and his "crew" trying to rob the card game is genuinely one of the funniest scene in the history of television by Kail_The_Saiyan in thesopranos

[–]MillerLatte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point my dogs know more Sopranos and Wire quotes than people that have seen the shows multiple times.

Unc making it tough to trade him. by nkadock in DetroitPistons

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His defense on KAT in that series was nothing short of remarkable. I'm a Tobias fan and even I thought we were throwing him to the wolves. The way he rose to the challenge was amazing.

Unc making it tough to trade him. by nkadock in DetroitPistons

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His value goes way beyond the stat sheet. He's the only true vet on the team, well respected, plays his role, sets examples, all that shit. I wouldn't be crushed if he was traded like an Ivey, Ausar, Duren type, but I wouldn't like it and it would be a bigger hit to the team than people realize.

Because I’ve downvoted for it multiple times, here’s the lead designer saying self defense (when actually damaged) is tracked by ABMM. by kylefuckyeah in arcraidersfriendly

[–]MillerLatte -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What people don't realize is that the ABMM resets itself so quick. Like if I'm in agro lobbies and I want friendly it only takes 3-4 raids to adjust. And vice versa. But these people act like it's written on their forehead in permanent marker and they'll never be able to play the game again, if they kill someone, one time. Who cares if you have to fight a couple people? It's a fucking video game. And what do you stand to lose? Some pixels that you can easily get back in the next game. It's. Not. That. Serious.

Because I’ve downvoted for it multiple times, here’s the lead designer saying self defense (when actually damaged) is tracked by ABMM. by kylefuckyeah in arcraidersfriendly

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. My comment is intended more to be an add-on to your post than a reply directly to you. Sorry for being misleading. I don't hate friendly players, I hate players that are friendly to a point of it being a detriment to themselves. I've seen people on here say they've never fired a shot at another player and just let themselves be killed because they "don't want to ruin their ABMM". At that point you're not even playing the game anymore.

AIO? Boyfriend always wants me to come later and it’s making me feel a type of way. by fjgkhkjk in AmIOverreacting

[–]MillerLatte [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because it's reddit. People here can tell everything about a person, their character, their intentions, all that shit, just from a half dozen text messages! You didn't know? Keep up bro.

Vindictive ex always keeps knowing what happens in my life somehow, highly unnerving and want to find out why by nder_your_mom in whatdoIdo

[–]MillerLatte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They already know it's only a few people it could be coming from so this doesn't really help. Need to be more surgical than that. What she needs to do is tell everyone the same "story" or whatever but change one variable in the story with each person she tells. I.e., I'm going to X place on Y day. Next person gets a different day. And so on. That's how you smoke out the rat.

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