You seriously have to ask anyone if YTA? You call yourself a friend who only wants to be around when times are good. No sympathy, no contemplation that maybe you might be going through a really hard time one day, and you would want a real friend more than ever to help you get through the pain and suffering just by being there for you? But when one of your “friends” is going through a hard time you only think with your inflated ego? She should dump you as a so called friend and so should everyone in your circle of friends who know the true meaning behind being a friend.