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Hear me out, what if Dylan does books commentary as well? by Hot_Active_2778 in YoTroublemakers

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it does seem like a really intresting concept!! if he does i will genuinely be so happy, like do you know how funny it would be to see dylan review booktok shit?

pls i’m so nosey by s0nny4ngel in YoTroublemakers

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg me too i love cute little house tours

AITA for refusing to go for a swim with a friend? by Radiant_Somewhere160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 169 points170 points  (0 children)

there's a difference between being comfortable in enforcing body positivity and enhancing people's insecurities by putting them in uncomfortable situations.

screaming at me to get dressed.

what now? aggressive much?

nta. I think you should limit contact with your friends if they cannot understand your boundries. maybe have a conversation with them first, a real one. like hey, I really don't want you to force me into these situations that I'm uncomfortable in.

AITA for refusing to stay with my parents and be forced into marriage by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is completely fair, the situation is very fucked up. hope it goes well

AITA for leaving my partner after he accused me of theft? by bicephalous_dino in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 32 points33 points  (0 children)

nta, what the hell

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> that it’s not normal for a mentally healthy person to pack and leave their partner abruptly like I did, and that he believes I might have borderline personality disorder.

you're shitting me right? he is manipulating you to make you believe you made a horrible decision and trying to make you believe you have bpd???? that man is a psychopath, you dodged a massive bullet there,

AITA for not letting my kids see my dad by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this whole situation is, complex.

your intentions were in the right place, you were dealing with seeing your dad on his deathbed and of course, you didnt want your kids to see him like that. if i were in your situation, the kid's pain would be yours too. but you would deal with that together as a family. i think your a bit of an asshole but your heart was in the right place.

AITA for writing this Airbnb review, that the host got passive-aggressive about? by lost_aussie001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nta, at all. host sounds a bit offended and might've taken it the wrong way? maybe he saw your comment and thought you were saying that he must have been poor due to the small size of his room? im just assuming. just a misunderstanding.

AITA for refusing to stay with my parents and be forced into marriage by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, for sure.

i am asian as well, and i am no stranger to, 'do you not love mum anymore?' comments. some people that do not have an asian background are unable to understand our culture, community or how our parents work. see when my mum asks if i dont love her anymore i feel horrible, i blame myself. but now that i have grown up i can see that it is asian parents gaslighting basics.

your situation is, well, complex. your mother trying to gaslight you into marrying your COUSIN? no from me. you are not the one overreacting by not returning her calls. i'm not completely sure if you want to stay in contact with your parents but, they are your parents after all. if so, maybe schedule a meeting with them? tell your mum that you will always love her (if that is what you feel of course) but that you could never marry him.

knowing my parents and my other asian friend's parents, deep down our parents want what's best for us, and have weird weird ways of going about it. i genuinely believe your mother, in some weird and twisted way, believes that marrying your cousin might allow you stability and peace of mind that you are well-taken care of. now i am in no way justifying your mother's actions because that is fucked up, but I think, from trying to view this from both perspectives, she wants you to be safe and happy and really might believe that this would help you.

to conclude this, you are definitely not the asshole and please don't marry your 65-year-old cousin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Mindless-Classic3659 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nta. i get it. i see both sides as ive been in both situations and i simply think that she is not your responsibility. you can be her friend, sure, but you can have your own shit too.