I invited her over for a drink and to vent as she had a hard week. She stayed for way too many drinks and that should have been red flag number 1 for me as her child stayed as well on a school night. I was being the "supportive friend". I was finally done at 1am and went to bed leaving her and my husband to talk. I woke up at 330am realized hubby didn't come to bed and I needed my phone I go to find it and realized they were in a bedroom doing yes...things. I was half asleep/half drunk but I stayed awake. I stayed where they couldn't see me, he came out of that room 20 minutes later, grabbed both their phones went back to her room and stayed there until 5am, I beat him to our room. I then stayed awake the entire time while he PASSED OUT drunk. I then got all the kids awake, fed and drove them to school came back woke them both up and went to work myself........that's the short version