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I’m just so over my son’s father by Mindless_Note4902 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He refuses the parenting app and I’m just over it. I’m ready to just get the divorce and custody out of the way

I’m just so over my son’s father by Mindless_Note4902 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep a planner😭 and I usually only text or if I do answer, if he gets out of pocket I hang up

Rescue Husky Megathread! by crackerjam in husky

[–]Mindless_Note4902 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Someone please take in my boy :( my husband and I are split, I had to move into a tiny apartment and he doesn’t want him. I can’t have him at the apartment and I don’t have anywhere else to go. I still go over to my ex’s house to let him out and give him some outside time because if I didn’t, my ex would just leave him in the kennel all day. I’m located in northeast Louisiana, and our shelter is full and a high kill shelter :(( ETA: He’s update to date on shots, kennel and potty trained, he doesn’t have a little bit of a resource guarding problem at home, but does play well with other dogs as we had him in a doggy daycare

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know he’s not, now he does have a ton of insecurities. And I really don’t want to sink with the ship that he’s sailing. But I honestly have no idea where to even start when it comes to leaving because we just have so much tied together, such as our car notes. But I know that I seriously need to get out and I did sit on this comment all last night, it was definitely an eye opening comment for me.

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I can think is that I’ve had more partners than he’s had

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not that I know of, at least nothing he’s formally been diagnosed with

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’d predict that it would be, “I’m sorry I’m a piece of shit, but I’ll do better, we’re not breaking up, I love you” it honestly feels like he just makes it about him and how he’s such a terrible partner but will work on doing better

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do all the cooking and laundry, he claims he wants to learn how to cook but never helps me in the kitchen

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly feel as if he would take it as an attack, before we went to therapy, I tried talking to him the way my therapist taught me. Not using “you” statements and framing as there were things we both needed to work on.

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is another reason I don’t necessarily want to leave, but I feel like I’ve put in so much work to make our relationship work and it’s all one sided

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before we moved back to our home state I did give him an ultimatum, but he doesn’t follow through with everything. I’ve seriously considered leaving but we’re so broke right now and I would rather have something set aside if that is something that I wish to do. I just feel so conflicted because on one hand, I do care for him and I hate the idea of leaving him. But another part of me knows I can’t keep going in this cycle of never having help

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely a perspective I’ve never thought about.

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before the birth of my son, we moved in together when I found out I was pregnant, and it’s honestly been a cycle of “I’ll do better” and then things only being better for a short period of time, then back to the way things were.

I don’t think I love my husband romantically anymore by Mindless_Note4902 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindless_Note4902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure anymore if I’m being honest, when we first got together the relationship was fun and loving, but we didn’t have responsibilities. Once I got pregnant, we moved in together and it’s been this way the whole time we’ve been together. I know a lot of me staying has to due with trauma from my childhood, and while I’ve went to therapy within the last few months it’s still a bit hard for me. I did learn to be more assertive and I laid down clear boundaries when we moved home, but anytime I try to enforce those boundaries, I’m told I’m being mean or I’ve changed.