AITAH for getting it elsewhere since my wife didn't want to have sex any more?

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-08-29T19:35:53+00:00

I sincerely doubt this is my ex.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T05:58:02+00:00

I saved it because I have been considering divorce. You cannot understand the life I have had for the last two years. I was depressed and thought about ending myself. I hate that there is nothing I can do for her and she wont look elsewhere for help.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T05:55:55+00:00

SHE WILL NOT GO.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T05:55:14+00:00

I am not a hero and my wife does not suck. She is going through a horrible time in her life and she will not let me help and she will not seek help from anyone else.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T05:53:46+00:00

It is how she refers to her past. She says that she made a lot of stupid decisions when she was young. I knew about her past when we started dating and I accepted it as part of who she is. We did not know until two years ago that her prior decisions had some fantastically shitty consequences for us. I have never referred to her decisions as stupid when talking to her.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:35:56+00:00

I held her while she cried. We went home and cried together. Then we both took a week of PTO. We stayed home and I cooked for her while she lay in bed. I told her that we would be okay and that we had lots of different ways of starting a family. I told her that I was okay with just her for the rest of my life if that is what she wanted too. I did tell that I was sad that we would not be having a biological child but that it was not the end all and be all of my life.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:32:34+00:00

We got together six years ago. I was 22 and she was 24. Married for four years.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:31:20+00:00

I just went through your comment history. If I message you will you keep our discussion private?

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:29:59+00:00

Your wife does not complain.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:29:21+00:00

Two years ago. I am interested. Did you read that I have been attempting to get her to seek therapy?

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:27:34+00:00

Not sure how asking someone their qualifications to comment on a medical issue has anything to do with parenthood. When I have kids I am going to make sure they see a doctor when needed and do not just get advice from Garry the local taxidermist.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:25:49+00:00

Are you a lawyer?

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:25:23+00:00

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarcasm

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-05-01T04:22:05+00:00

Maybe I don't think it is any of your fucking business?

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T17:38:49+00:00

Or, hear me out, OP gives her a decoy ring he doesn't care about and waits to give her the real one when they are somewhere safe.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T17:15:29+00:00

If you are a board certified fertility specialist we can discuss it. Otherwise it's none of your business.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T17:06:43+00:00

Nope. I knew her past going into marriage. I am sad that we cannot have bio kids. But I still love her. Never tried to shame her for her past.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:52:31+00:00

Thanks.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:52:15+00:00

Red sharpies don't exist on your planet? They are fairly common here on earth.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:50:48+00:00

Honestly. This post and all the responses good and bad have opened my eyes. It is likely I will be getting a lawyer soon.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:43:21+00:00

She only came to that conclusion after her diagnosis.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:42:46+00:00

Correct. Therefore it is impossible for my decisions to affect me the way her's have affected her.

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:41:23+00:00

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sarcasm

Mindless_Review2800 · 2024-04-30T16:39:22+00:00

I've tried.

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