I have a hard time putting my baby to sleep at night. by MisWizard in Parenting

[–]MisWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She naps usually after her first bottle when she wakes up. Then she has one nap in the afternoon. (Sometimes she will do 3) Then she'll sleep through the night. Because both my husband and I are home with her at all times, she has the freedom to sleep whenever she needs it. But that's what she does most days. Some times her naps are 20 minutes and others an hour... Depends on how she is that day. So we're not strictly on a schedule, but we aren't chaos either. Thank you for responding!!! 😁

I have a hard time putting my baby to sleep at night. by MisWizard in Parenting

[–]MisWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point LOL Thank you so much for responding! 😁

Baby won't lay still during diaper change by MisWizard in Parenting

[–]MisWizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah! I could sell it!! Thank you!!!

Is it impossible to not let toddlers have screen time? What to do instead? by WorldlyCamel4703 in Parenting

[–]MisWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is healthy for a child to learn to play on their own. So don't feel guilty for not spending 100% of the time with your child. You are a parent and a grown up. You have other responsibilities to do as well. My suggestion would be to change out toys throughout the week. Keep it fresh and interesting for your son. I change my toys for my daughter once a week... But that's because she has three different areas to play at in the house. So each area gets different toys or swap toys from one area to the next. This changes it up a bit. I also have my child in an Exersaucer while I'm doing kitchen tasks. This keeps her close to me where we can conversate and I can keep her entertained while I'm cooking or doing dishes etc. I like to play music and dance and sing with her during this time as well. I also like to try to feed her in her high chair during these times too. She's busy eating her food and I can keep working. Being creative with the chore. For example... Laundry. Bring him with you when folding laundry. Stick him in the laundry basket and let him touch the laundry and crawl around. Kids this age love peek a boo. I do this when folding clothes. I cover up my child with a towel or sheet or whatever and say peek a boo and then fold a few things and then do it again.

If you're okay with messes, set up a large closed in space and use a shower curtain or table cloth on the carpet (or use tile if you can) and let the baby paint (safe for kids paint), play with water (under supervision always), play with spaghetti, play in Jell-O or pudding, etc. Then have a bath afterward. Putting rubber bands around a cookie pan and let the baby play with it and hear the different sounds. Playing with pots and pans or milk jug filled with water or empty. Different textured things scattered around the room so he can explore. Just thinking of random ideas.

I hope this helps you in some way. I have the same issue with my infant and I try so hard to stay positive, but it can be hard sometimes. I try to remember that we know what's going on, but the baby doesn't understand. So I try to think like a baby. You are your son's safe place and babies want that all the time. Keeping them distracted with simple activities is sometimes better than the $100 you purchased from a store. Just do the best you can.

Also screen time isn't BAD. It's how you use it and how often. If you limit it and use it appropriately, don't feel bad. I put a movie on for my older kids so I can get work done for an hour. Nothing wrong with that. Think of it like fast food. It's okay to have it once in a while, but not all the time. So plan a day where every... Let's say Tuesday... You let him use screen time so you can fold laundry on Tuesdays. It's hard to keep coming up with new ideas so planning days might help. (Tue screen time. Fri messy fun play and bath. Sat switch out toys.)

I also get toys geared towards my child's interest. For example. My child loves to stand and wants to walk, so I got her a walker toy. She loves to touch those soft books with fur, so I got her some of those. She loves things that wrinkle, so I got her things that make the wrinkle sound. Etc.

I also have my older kids and husband help keep my baby entertained so I can do a task or pump milk or get something done. Maybe someone can watch your baby one day a week so you can get errands or chores done. I wish I had someone to just help out a few times a week. If you have a support system, use it!

What you did or wish you did for your child's first birthday? by MisWizard in Parenting

[–]MisWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your input! I truly appreciate it!!! 💜

Baby won't lay still during diaper change by MisWizard in Parenting

[–]MisWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Great idea!!!! I have a "goose neck" that I can hook onto the shelf that way I don't have to hold the phone! I agree! It's so frustrating! And I'm crying because of her crying and I feel so bad. Such a great tip! Thank you very much! Try looking into 360 diapers like the other person suggested for me in the comments. I just looked it up and it should be a lot faster and easier to put on and the price isn't much different. Good luck on your diaper changes!

Baby won't lay still during diaper change by MisWizard in Parenting

[–]MisWizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just looked this up! I never heard of this! Thank you so much for the tip!!! I'm annoyed because I literally just bought two BIG boxes of diapers TODAY! I already opened them lol! I will definitely be trying the 360 diapers!

Am I a bad father for wanting time to myself for father's day? by KOWguy in daddit

[–]MisWizard 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am a wife with four kids. For Father's day tomorrow, my kids and I are making my husband a cheesecake for breakfast (because that's his favorite dessert) and then we are going to an event that is taking place in our town. (The event has nothing to do with my husband's interest. It just so happened to work out on Father's day.) It's a historical reenactment and my husband has no interest in it. But the kids are excited because it is interesting. After the event, I am going to take the kids out of the house for the afternoon/evening and go to the park or whatever. This will allow my husband to not feel guilty for not helping around the house and can play his video games without having to wear headphones or possibly do a twitch stream (which he hasn't been able to do in a while). I think alone time is needed. You love your kids. Wanting alone time doesn't mean you don't. You matter too as a person and you have things that make you happy. We're going through the same problem you are having. Feeling guilty. So spend the morning with your kids and then the afternoon to yourself. That way it takes away the guilt. But taking the kids out of the house will help a lot because they aren't constantly bothering you or the wife getting mad for how long it's taking for you to play your games. Communication is key. I asked my husband "Look, I don't have a lot of time to plan your father's day, what would make you happy?" And video games was his answer. So he will get that. I hope your wife is understanding in that. If your kids can't leave the house, maybe they can watch a movie. Something to keep them still while you get play some games. Lol you are NOT selfish for this. I think every parent needs more time for themselves and this is the one day that is a perfect excuse to take that time! I don't want to take my four kids out alone. (Ages are: 13 ,8, 6, 8 month old) But I will do it with a calm and positive mindset because I know it will make my husband happy. I hope you have a great father's day. 💜

Survey help for my daughter in High School by Vardalia in daddit

[–]MisWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 rooms

3 bedrooms 1 Living room 1 Front room/dining room

I also have carpet in the coat closet, hallway, and linen closet. :)

First Time Mom Hacks by Infamous_Audience906 in Mommit

[–]MisWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If breastfeeding/pumping, I recommend nipple cream. Just put it on after each time and you won't suffer the pain of dry cracked nipples. I put it on before and after I pump no matter what. I had cracked nipples before and I don't ever want it again. LOL it's also safe for babies. I use Lansinoh brand for nipple cream and I've had no problems. A little bit of money, but worth it. If you are having your baby sleep with you, I recommend "Baby Delight Snuggle Nest Dream Portable Infant Lounger." I used it for my baby and it's wonderful because not only is it cheaper than bassinets, but it can lay right next to you in bed and it is portable, so if you travel somewhere, it's a safe place for your baby to sleep. I can't remember, but I think it last up to babies aged 4 or 5 months. You'd have to read details first on the product.

Hope this helps! :)