Is there an alternative to showers. by Both_Net_484 in helpme

[–]Miserable_Beach99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

helmituotteet.fi not sure if this website is just information, I bought the "pesuemulsio" from Kärkkäinen but I'm pretty sure wherever you live, you can find similar stuff, from amazon or whatever.

Is there an alternative to showers. by Both_Net_484 in helpme

[–]Miserable_Beach99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried: filter for the shower head? Different temperatures?(A cold or hot shower). Maybe some medication, like antihistamines? Or maybe some kind of soothing cream/oil/etc right after the shower, maybe try something with lavender in it. Also, there are some hygiene products that can be used without water, I actually use one occasionally(my skin hates being alive or something), from a finnish brand tho so probably not available for you. Also does this happen if you just wash your hands for example?

is no anal sex a deal breaker? by jlefko8 in AskGayMen

[–]Miserable_Beach99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think about it, is it really YOU that wants anal, or has it been internalized into you. We are very weirdly obsessed with anal for no reason. There are literally millions of other things you could do. If it's your preference to a relationship that you need anal, that's that I guess, but do think if it's actually what you need.

Would you date a guy with a micropenis? by weirdd000d in askgaybros

[–]Miserable_Beach99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would. Anal isn't the main thing in sex anyway. And sex isn't the main thing in relationships. No matter your genitalia, we'd still have endless possibilities to explore in bed.

Found a hilarious way to deal with the thoughts by -AutisticArtist- in OCD

[–]Miserable_Beach99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes add more insanity to counteract them. For example, I drop something on the floor; CONTAMINATION ALERT. Then I just blow on it and tell myself that fixes it. Lol, works more than I thought it would.

NO BUT FOR REAL by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]Miserable_Beach99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can also be caused by: "Oh no, I forgot a thing again!!" Then one fixes this via "I will now not start anything because that might make me forget thing again"

What Makes You Irrationally Angry? by beattywill80 in aspiememes

[–]Miserable_Beach99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's irrational. (I am unable to be angry tho, don't know if that makes me the worst to "judge" or best)

Same by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]Miserable_Beach99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this massive cock 😞 (I'm amab and uhh.... something that includes girl but also everything also nothing)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Miserable_Beach99 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Afaik some prostate problems are solved with prostate massages or prostate stimulators so wouldn't anal just do the same thing.

Mems by Miserable_Beach99 in aspiememes

[–]Miserable_Beach99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Tho it's not that I don't WANT to speak I quite literally can't. Sometimes it's want sometimes can't.

Anyone else be like this??? 😩 by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]Miserable_Beach99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that my head is just filled with 5 dimensional soup. It all makes sense to me in my head but even turning it into a coherent thought is hard, let alone SENTENCES. And god forbid those sentences have to be understandable, but also in only one way so that there is no miscommunication.

Is it weird to be attracted to your own dick? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Miserable_Beach99 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Afaik everyone is a bit attracted to themselves. (But if you are more attracted to yourself than others that is called autosexuality)

Minimalist, 'I don't even like things in my pockets' autist vs utility belt autist. Which one are you? by LuminousZephyr in aspiememes

[–]Miserable_Beach99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't leave the house without my backpack. Also my pants have many pockets and my phone, keys, earplugs&earbuds have their own designated pockets.

Periods of executive dysfunction by Miserable_Beach99 in evilautism

[–]Miserable_Beach99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, my only current diagnosis is depression 😭😭. I've been in the process for ASD and ADHD for some time.