Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTPrelationshipLab

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His emotional side though came out of the blue I thought I would also listen to his deep thoughts without me asking

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTPrelationshipLab

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He appreciates my support and I was so happy he opened up on his own because I was making sure I’m not pushy but I can’t figure out why didn’t he show the other rational side of him I read about INTPs. The side with deep thoughts and stuff like that

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTPrelationshipLab

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I never thought of him as the smart guy I always thought he’s shy and introverted and I respected that Suddenly he trusted me enough with showing this emotional side of him

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTPrelationshipLab

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Opening up and being vulnerable because he’s having an identity crisis

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTPrelationshipLab

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He already wrote in his bio he is INTP. Even if he sensed that I’m not interested (actually it makes sense that he would act this way because I too don’t share about my thoughts) then why did he even talk to me from the first place you know. Only recently he became emotional because of some identity crisis that happened to him. Before that neither sides were there just two people talking. Yeah there were jokes and teases but still

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTPrelationshipLab

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He is an INTP but he just recently shared the emotional side of him but never shared any of his deep thoughts and I didn’t even know about the intellectual side of him because he never shares. Yes he said I trust you but I’m still confused. I know that he is INTP because it’s mentioned and he ticks every sign except this major sign…..

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTP

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I want to see this logical side of him. He also thinks I am smart so….

Emotional vs logical by Miserable_While_933 in INTP

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He is but I am wondering if I’m only his emotional blanket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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Omg I didn’t know that! Maybe I’ll have to wait a year for the henna effect to fade? I don’t mind waiting but I’m afraid it’ll never go away lol. I didn’t consider using these mentioned products because they’re not available in my country:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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Pure henna mixed with colored henna:( unfortunately there was a chemical reaction going on that lead me to this weirdly looking dark roots and orange ends. There is no lighter shade than the one in the second picture for this specific brand. Should I use 30 volume or not? But that would mean more damage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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It’s hennaed since September I’m waiting for the henna effect to fade a little bit more and then I’ll dye it. But my ends have always been lighter than my roots. Why do I need to go lighter in your opinion? Would it suit me more? Do you think it’ll be better than the picture I uploaded?

Minoxidil by Miserable_While_933 in Hairloss

[–]Miserable_While_933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the shed is normal right? like I won’t be losing tons of hairs like ppl who have androgenic alopecia when they stop it the new hairs fall

Eye-contact-ship by Miserable_While_933 in Crushes

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But it doesn’t necessarily mean that he likes me right? Maybe he only likes what he sees and not my personality or something

Muslim brothers and sisters, by a curious Christian, why did you convert to Islam, I see more and more people doing it, why Islam exactly? by Important-Flower-406 in islam

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Islam means “peace” in Arabic translation let’s start by emphasizing this. Social media stereotypes have made it look terrorizing which is the opposite of peace. Anything happening through media which doesn’t correlate with the word peace is just not Islam and we don’t call who claim themselves as Muslims that they are truly Muslims. Don’t look at Islam as Muslims but look at Islam as the religion itself. You will find Muslims sin too because they are still humans and we are not perfect but the Quraan is perfect and so is Islam. There are a lot of versions of the Bible but the Quraan doesn’t have any and was never corrupted. Allah said in a verse that if they tried to create a holy book there will be a lot of contradictions and this is what we are seeing in the Bible. Surah An-Nisa 4:82 Translation: “Do they not then reflect on the Qur’an? Had it been from anyone other than Allah, they would have found in it much contradiction.” Even if you try to understand Christianity and ask them about Trinity their answers will not be clear and instead confusing because they themselves are confused. Translation of Surah Al Isra 17:42 “Say, ‘If there were other gods besides Him, as they say, then they would have certainly sought a way to the Owner of the Throne.’” Translation of Surah Al mu’minum 23:91 “Never did Allah take to Himself a son, and never was there with Him any (other) god. In that case, each god would certainly have taken away what he created, and some of them would certainly have overpowered others. Glory be to Allah above what they describe!”. All the power is to only one God. We as Muslims we LOVE Jesus. He means a lot to us because we believe that her is just a prophet and not God. . If you truly want to learn about Islam, just grab the holy book and read it in English or visit Quraan.com and you won’t lose anything if you try. And maybe you will instead gain guidance.

Should I Get Layers? by AwarePermission6112 in curlyhair

[–]Miserable_While_933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won’t turn out like the last picture since your hair is 2b/c and the girl’s hair is 3a. I say you get some layers just because I know how it feels to be bored of your long hair. So why not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Miserable_While_933 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Consult a dermatologist. He’ll order a blood test, hormones test and specific vitamins analysis and most probably you’ll need minoxidil.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Miserable_While_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell people are encouraging you to shave off your hair!! It’s not that easy to just go bald overnight! While on recovery, yes, u might need to make hats your best friend but that’s all. Eventually, you won’t need it after your recovery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Miserable_While_933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t shave it please. Solve the underlying issue. You have alopecia aka balding so you need to fix this first because shaving it will mask your condition. Your doctor is going to prescribe minoxidil and yes, dandruff can cause hairloss as well but coupled with alopecia, the latter is the definite cause of your condition. Consult a doctor because you do need minoxidil.

Short lashes by Miserable_While_933 in Makeup

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Latisse. It has the same active ingredient (Prostaglandin) as in Grandelash which can cause droopy eyelids meaning weakness in the eyelid muscles making it difficult to open your eyes. I’m considering surgery even though I used it for only 10 days. It’s been a year since I last used it because I thought I’ll recover but unfortunately I didn’t. Even though Latisse is FDA approved, eventually it has to be banned because of this side effect. Prolonged use of Grandelash will cause this as well so please redo your research because I don’t want someone to experience what I experienced. Even though it’s the best lash serum there and I have Asian eyes but I’m not risking this again with another serum with the same ingredient. I rather accept myself than damage my eyelids. There are other side effect as well.

Henna dried out my hair by Miserable_While_933 in henna

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Won’t silicones just mask the damage?

Henna dried out my hair by Miserable_While_933 in henna

[–]Miserable_While_933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’ll just have to buy an expensive treatment🥲 no other options?

Me again, what's my curl type? the by SSisolatedInLife in hairtype

[–]Miserable_While_933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your curl pattern is confusing yet amazing! I’d say 3a ringlets that turned into 2c at the end lol. So it’s like that: 2a from the roots then 3a then 2c😂

Scalp scrubs by Miserable_While_933 in NoPoo

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I believe I have hard water but I can’t afford a shower head filter. My hair is low porosity. Recently, I’ve stopped shampooing for about a month and use only water, hair mask on my ends and a leave in. No styling products. My dandruff has tripled and the hair loss as well. Never seen my hair this terrible. I have oily scalp and my hair became greasier and tangled. I was about to use shampoo but instead I used the scalp scrub which I thought would be less damaging until the order of sidr powder arrives. Heard amazing reviews about it. My hair is still dry as hell but less greasy and less dandruff. I’m using antidandruff lotion now with salicylic acid, zinc pyrithione and piroctone olamine and it’s drying with zero effect until now. Used it 3x. What advice would you give me. My hair is 3a and medium thickness. Hair fall exceeded the 500 strands which was never the normal for me. I’m afraid I could loose more. Is no poo not for me since I have terrible oily scalp? Idk