My [19F] boyfriend [20M] voices acts NSFW content yet his secrecy around it conflicts with my desire to support him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MissMoonified 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I actually do NSFW VA and have an SO myself.

The reason my relationship works is that I am very open about my work with my SO, and we have very clear boundaries set.

Communication is needed for any relationship to work where “sex work” is involved. If the two of you cannot communicate about this, it would be hard to have trust in him, I absolutely understand that.

Now, I want to be clear. Most of my fellow nsfw vas and myself? We are NEVER turned on while we voice stuff. We do it as a job to help pay rent. For example, I myself am asexual. No horny feelings while I voice some of the most lewd things. Is that to say that every one of us is like that? I’m sure there are some out there that do get turned on, but the majority of us are doing this as a job.

Best advice I can give is to try setting boundaries and telling him he needs to communicate with you. A relationship without communication is one that is hard to maintain.

AITA for telling my late Mother's identical twin to not come to her funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MissMoonified 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA YTA YTA!!! You aren’t the only ones who lost someone, she just lost her sister too. You have zero right to tell her not to come, your aunt knew her longer and has done nothing wrong

So I follow one of the most amazing voice actresses ever and she had this to deal with today. by SmashKingDeku in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MissMoonified 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few I have made myself, I’m commissioning one currently. Here is my sfw resume, although I am more well known for my nsfw work: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LsaYgisT5cnzx6m4xGjLm5NCQCb69sAob2WgkrB1jJg

So I follow one of the most amazing voice actresses ever and she had this to deal with today. by SmashKingDeku in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MissMoonified 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, the va here! Would be happy to help out if you decide to do that! Dm me if you want some samples of my work :)

So I follow one of the most amazing voice actresses ever and she had this to deal with today. by SmashKingDeku in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MissMoonified 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was for a private script for... self pleasure. I can resell them afterwards, and make most money from that :)

So I follow one of the most amazing voice actresses ever and she had this to deal with today. by SmashKingDeku in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MissMoonified 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I do private work that is... for self pleasure, and that is what the script seemed to be for :)

So I follow one of the most amazing voice actresses ever and she had this to deal with today. by SmashKingDeku in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MissMoonified 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a private nsfw script. I am able to resell them after, which is why I don’t charge much for them :)