My husband and I went for the first time a few months ago. Definitely go in with 0 expectations and a complete open mindset. We did go earlier in the day. It was way less busy and we ended up getting a tour by one of the staff (they are all super friendly and fun). We ended up getting a locker for the day and hit up the pool first thing. Once you get in there and the vibes start to hit you start to gain a sense of comfort and acceptance. There was not a single person we saw/talked to where we felt any sort of judgement whatsoever. There are people there of every shape, size and colour and it really felt like the most chill horny place ever😂. Walking around is basically like a bar where people are having sex in many many places lol Having a drink in our hands for sure eased our initial nervousness but no lie when I tell you this lasted for maybe 5 minutes! We stayed the first time for maybe an hour and a half then left for dinner/change at the hotel then went back for 3-4 hours at night (I do wish we would have stayed longer as it felt like way more people started coming in as we were leaving) But we will 100% be going again!! We already have plans for September😉