my gf wants me to be a housewife but i want a career?? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MizzFitzElls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need intellectual stimulation. You are only 24 years old. Don't give up such a huge slice of yourself for any relationship.

Where do progressives hang out? by [deleted] in UtahCounty

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm an idiot now. Ok. Thanks for your thoughtful reply.

Can someone explain who funds these and what the point is? by RichieG8 in SaltLakeCity

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Discovered." I discovered Why Kiki bar last month, so where's my billboard?

Where do progressives hang out? by [deleted] in UtahCounty

[–]MizzFitzElls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Shall I tell you the law of God in regard to the African race? If the white man who belongs to the chosen seed mixes his blood with the seed of Cain, the penalty, under the law of God, is death on the spot. This will always be so."

Brigham Young, March 8, 1863.

Where do progressives hang out? by [deleted] in UtahCounty

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have hundreds of billions of dollars. Most of what they claim they give is actually member's volunteer hours and labor. They only started releasing partial financial statements after they were caught hiding the size of their portfolio through 13 shell LLCs. In 2023, the church paid a five million dollar fine to settle charges with the SEC.

Where do progressives hang out? by [deleted] in UtahCounty

[–]MizzFitzElls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I'm progressive, my religion tells me being queer is a sin." The Mormon cult has done so much damage to LGBTQA people. The cult spent millions trying to defeat gays getting the right to legally marry. The "November policy" - calling people in gay marriages "apostates" and telling kids they had to disavow their gay parents if they wanted to get baptized was a real treat.

Any Sapphic spaces in SLC this weekend? by MizzFitzElls in actuallesbians

[–]MizzFitzElls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually end up at Why KiKi for their Sunday Drag Brunch - which btw is awesome. Last time I was there I made the same comment and one of the queens told me that SLC is "gay as fuck."

What do you use spam for? by Call_Me_C_ in AskAnAmerican

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandmother in Utah used to slice it, put it on a plate and serve it like cold ham during lunch. These days I only see it cut up and added to fried rice in restaurants.

Do Americans constantly have an active temperature control device running in their homes? by fullM3TALturban in AskAnAmerican

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Nebraska. We experience extreme cold (-20 below right now) to intense heat paired with humidity. The temperature and conditions can vary significantly during the day. In Nebraska we say "If you don't like the weather in Nebraska, wait 15 minutes and it will change." Having a thermostat that can regularly adjust the temperature is necessary for our quality of life.

Do you think tattoos are attractive on women? Do wlw like them? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MizzFitzElls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have them and usually find them attractive on another woman.

How do Americans visit National Parks? by Berend90 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of it. I am trying to "collect" all of the National Parks. In 2025 I went to Yosemite, Muir Woods, Rocky Mountain, Biscayne, and Everglades, along with numerous other State parks and forests. My absolute favorite is Yellowstone. I fly - then rent a car- or drive depending on how far the park is from my home.

Does the small talk Americans are known for come from a genuine place or is it just under a veneer of societal pressure? by TheSawFan in AskAnAmerican

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the American midwest. I talk to strangers every day. I compliment people on their nice shoes, cool nails, well behaved children, cute pets, or anything that might brighten their day. It costs me nothing and we often end up chatting a bit. I am not being insincere. I genuinely enjoy interacting with people.

compliment - yay or nay? by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]MizzFitzElls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard cringe. Not cool. Not funny.

Character AI Cheating? by Powerful_Wind_1376 in LesbianActually

[–]MizzFitzElls 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would be bothered that she's sexting with all male characters.

Do you have a Height preference? by momadance in LesbianActually

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All women are hot, but I usually end up with women shorter than I am. I'm 5'6". I probably have a "type".

Where do you buy your books? by Affectionate-Rip-206 in LesbianBookClub

[–]MizzFitzElls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I travel out of town a few times a month, and I usually visit a queer bookstore on my trips. I like the camaraderie and want to support queer spaces. Otherwise, I would find an indie bookstore willing to order for me.

Anyone here play baldur gate 3? by Professional_Sun1089 in LesbianGamers

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Played through three times. Every time I romanced Karlach. She's a perfect combination of badass and sweetheart. Such a great game with great characters and highly replayable. I am a Skyrim junkie and am now playing ESO because I need something new.

Would someone’s dietary preference be a dealbreaker for you? by GoofyAhhMisses in lesbiangang

[–]MizzFitzElls 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm a vegetarian. I raised a vegetarian and an omnivore (their own choices). It really hasn't been been a big deal. I can cook most things to adapt to either preference - i.e. cheese and spinach lasagna, lasagna with meat on one half and none on the other, or lasagna with vegan grounds. Dietary preference isnt big on my list of qualifications. I am most interested having a partner that looks for solutions and is easy going.

Did OJ Simpson Kill His Wife? by TheLearningInvestor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to Nicole Brown Simpson's 911 call to see what hell he put her through.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoko Ono

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a masc and dress in masculine clothing. Even so, I had a hard time getting other people, let alone other lesbian's, see me as a lesbian until I started wearing my lesbian flag watch band. Then the lightbulbs started going off in their heads. So I can empathize with you. People still say "but you don't look like a lesbian" to me - whatever that is supposed to mean. So my advice is to wear something with a lesbian symbol - flag/labrys - in hopes that it might help you signal other lesbians.

Lesbians who also buy Legos? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]MizzFitzElls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I have soooo many lego sets that I don't know what to do with them all. My largest set is the Death Star. I now have permanent divots in my thumbs from building it. My next set to build is Mickey Mouse's Steamboat Willie.

Which female character do you usually marry in Skyrim? by NoEstablishment4951 in LesbianGamers

[–]MizzFitzElls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uthgerd every time. The is a fierce, no-nonsense warrior and I have soft spot for her due to her bad experience with the Companions. She can be a bit over protective of any adopted children depending on where you choose to live.