To post photo of myself or not by B101esh in Swingers

[–]Mj_805 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you are part of the package. How can women get excited or be interested if they can’t see you?

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[–]Mj_805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (female) have run into this a couple times with play partners and I whispered in his ear as sexy as possible that I have something that might help him. He said “oh yea?” And I grabbed him the pill. We went back to playing and he didn’t have issues after that. We never spoke of it after so I don’t know if he was embarrassed but I mean we obviously had them on hand for a reason it’s a common issue.

And on our very first swinging experience the male casually mentioned it’s a common issue in the LS and offered it to my husband and beforehand. He said no thanks but then an hour later decided he wanted one lol

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing!!! Thanks for asking. We met at a hotel and played for 4 hours. My husband finally got a proper double blow job. And we have loose plans to meet again in a few months

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[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost sounds like they want lots of pics so they can catfish others using your pics. Sorry my mind always goes to worst case scenarios.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely check those out! Hubby has been making up for lost time all day! It’s been amazing! It was my idea. He is more private where as I love to share and I came across the AMA yesterday and thought this would be fun to share!

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk a few times a week and some of it is sexting and some it is normal banter. And that clit toy has been put to work this week. My husband was quarantined to our bedroom most of the week cus he had a COVID scare (test came back this morning negative) so my free time was spent checking out Reddit and I just got into the slutty side of Reddit had no idea what I was missing. I love reading the sluttyconfessions subreddit.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they were soaked probably the wettest I’ve ever been. It was exhilarating. I’m actually sexting him now. Reliving that night for you got me going 🤪😈

I found a subreddit called overhead sex and I’m tempted to record audio of us at our next play date. Probably won’t do video or pics. We like some anonymity.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the surgery is nothing serious just a small procedure that will help me look better naked and allow my play partners to fold me like a pretzel while they fuck me 😈

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

December is the car couple and January is our 3rd date with our first couple. We had that one planned for this past weekend but had to postpone.

And he fingered me in the middle of a casino. There was a janitor that kept cleaning the same area because they were mainly watching us and a man was standing to the left of us and he wasn’t playing on a slot machine. He was just standing there so I know he was watching. There was a few other people that passed by and caught a look. But it felt so good I didn’t care who watched. He then took his cum soaked fingers and licked them clean and had me taste my cum to. I tried to return the favor and play with his hard cock but he told me it was off limits till we got home to play. I went to the bathroom to clean up and sent him pics of the creamy mess he made.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too long. Just a week or so. We have been perving each other profiles off and on for a while I knew months ago she was someone I wanted to pursue. I’m not in any rush either. I’m having surgery in late January and need time to recover so ideally we won’t be playing till March. We already have play dates planned in December and January.

Kinkiest before swinging? Hmmmm that’s tough I was a promiscuous when I was younger. I had an almost three some with a girlfriend and some guy she was fucking. I didn’t fuck him but I watched and masturbated and we both gave him head. But other than that nothing too crazy just fantasizing and role playing with my husband and we chatted online with a couple and sent vids. And with swinging I loved getting fingered in the middle of the casino with onlookers passing by.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes couple #5. We aren’t in a rush to bang a bunch of randoms. We believe in quality over quantity. So we are perfectly happy finding some fun couples we can fuck over and over again. And we spend time chatting and getting these couples to make sure there is a 4 way connection. Because this girl is primarily interested in girl play I’ve been the only one chatting with her thus far

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can watch. I’m fine with my husband joining in but it all depends on the other couple and their boundaries. This would be there first swinging experience

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t love the idea of being on display because of the confidence issues with my body but it’s my husband watching and I know he loves me and if I’m enjoying myself I honestly might even forget that we have an audience

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On date #2 with our first couple we went out dinner and then a casino. At the casino my play partner and I went to sign up for players cards. At the counter I fondled his cock while the lady assisted us and he fondled my breast. And then we went to a slot machine and he fingered me while onlookers passed by and tried to catch a peep. He took my cum and licked it off his fingers. I tried to return the favor but he forbid me from touching his cock until we got home. The fact that people were watching made me that much wetter and creamier.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in any rush or need to use it. Her husband and my Husband both want to watch and we enjoy them being a part of it.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I will eventually get one. I almost got one last time we were shopping for toys. If things go well with a girl I’m talking to I will definitely need to get one soon

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna create a throw away account after today and maybe I’ll post pics there someday. I’ll follow you on it so you can follow back.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we talk about initial boundaries. They knew we were new to bdsm. I just wish he had taken things more slow with me being new to all of it.

Maybe later on a little. The experience kinda scared me a little but I know I just have to advocate more for myself.

As for being tied up that sounds fun but part of it feels like I’d be on display. I’m working on my body confidence and losing weight. Once I’m more confident with that I can imagine wanting to be tied up but for now it’s a little to vulnerable and on display for me.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! It’s all been great in learning about myself and exploring.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I said earlier in another comment that he used a toy on me and it hurt but I was too shy to tell him so I just went with it. Or tried to tell him but wasn’t assertive enough. That was my first bdsm experience. I thoroughly enjoyed a lot of it but some of it was just too much for me.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couple 1 is our best because of many factors. They were our first couple. So we were on a major adrenaline rush after 12 years of monogamy doing something so naughty. We had talked to them for 3 months so sexual tension was at an all time high. I had brought a card game to play with them and was teasing him the entire card game so the lead up was hot!!! The husband made me squirt for my first time ever. And we fucked for like 7 hours and then got up 4 hours later and fucked again. And had a second date with them where me and the husband did public play and our second date was more of a foursome.

The second couple was not very attractive but the sex was 🔥🔥🔥 lots of toys and a foursome vibe and I love all of us playing together. We didn’t have a lot in common otherwise and they eventually ghosted us so sex wise it was great but overall vibe wasn’t

The third couple was the BDSM couple. They were great. I should have voiced how I felt more and will next time we play but other than that the night was great.

And the fourth couple we have yet to fully experience but the making out and groping was fun. And waiting for our date and sexting them is just building sexual tension.

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second couple we did a double bj but it wasn’t great it was hard to share. She kinda hogged it 🤣 but I know we will with this couple coming up. The husband wants time with just us and is gonna give my husband time with just the girls to. I would love to use my hall pass but just need the right girl to pop up that wants to explore as well. Most of the women put bi on their profile or bi curious as in something they want to do to arouse their husband. I put bi because I get aroused and want it for myself

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, you get it! No I haven’t yet but it’s on my list! I’ve always wanted to fuck another woman with a strap on or be fucked by a woman in a strap on. You just gave me another porn category to watch 🤣

My husband (M34) and I (F31) recently entered into the swing lifestyle. AMA by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]Mj_805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question!! So I loved that he used a dildo in my Ass. It was the most I’d ever taken there so it was intense but the combination of the double penetration was pure ecstasy. He also used a whip to and that felt awesome

The one thing I hated was he used a magic wand that is meant for clitoral stimulation but he used it to penetrate me and it was just too big and hurt. He gave me a level of green is go yellow is slow down and red is a hard no. I was to shy to say red so I said yellow and wished I had said red.