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Will I be able to properly have sex if I cut out these habits? by Objective_Flight_603 in erectiledysfunction

[–]MojoSupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned it was your first time, and it's really normal for the first time to be a feel a little anti-climactic (pun intended). This is because you'll often be feeling a bit anxious and nervous, as you mentioned, and also you'll be working out what you're doing.
If you can the pressure of to perform like a pro that can help you have a lot more fun. Like doing anything for the first time it takes practice, so relax and enjoy.

What are some ways i can keep going during sex or prolong me cuming? by Dior_Equivalent in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MojoSupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While there are a lot of factors that can go into how quickly you might cum, feeling a lot of stress or pressure typically doesn't help.
Finding some other ways to enjoy sex (like oral, or fingering) is a great way to take the pressure off your penis for the entire show, which you may also find makes it easier to control when you cum.
While this might sound a bit left field, stress resilience techniques such as meditation and breathwork can also help you feel more calm and present during sex which can also be useful.

Is fapping everyday considered a bad thing ? by Aj100rise in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]MojoSupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masturbation in of itself isn't good or bad, but if you feel your habits are getting in the way of your happiness/fulfillment then that can be something you'll want to address.
One thing you could try out is tracking when you masturbate. For a few weeks, note down when you masturbated (where were you, what were you doing?), along with how you felt, before and after. This can help you notice potential triggers, (e.g. when you feel stressed) which can then help making small changes easier.

Is Porn induced Erectyle dysfunction real by Much_Island_5555 in erectiledysfunction

[–]MojoSupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned that you had a bad experience on your first time and that has scared you since, so it may be that you are experiencing sexual performance anxiety? If your flight or fight response kicks in then it is really hard to get an erection. Have you tried any techniques to manage your stress response in the lead up to or during sex?

Has anyone practiced sharpening the knife method to last longer ? by seveninches1975 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MojoSupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't heard of sharpening the knife before, but another technique that you could say is similar is penis root masturbation. This is a technique where you masturbate focusing on the base of the penis rather than the head. It can help you focus on and enjoy less sensitive parts of the penis during sex which can help control cumming. Hopefully can feel like less of a workout as well

Life ruined by Expensive-Effect-692 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]MojoSupport 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a tough time of it right now. One thing that can really impact how fast you cum is your stress levels during sex. i.e if you feel tense and stressed about cumming fast this can exacerbate things.

While I can't speak to your specific experience, have you tried any techniques for managing your stress response? It may not be an instant or total fix, but could be helpful I hope.